Being part of the queer community can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. One moment you’re disheartened by the wave of over 250 anti-LGBTQ bills being introduced across various state legislatures (with 17 already signed into law), and the next, you stumble upon a social media conversation that brims with support for LGBTQIA+ individuals, rekindling your faith in humanity. Recently, after receiving a nasty comment claiming that Jesus is against LGBTQ+ people, I shared a post highlighting that faith and allyship can coexist. I was genuinely touched by the number of people who responded with photos from their churches—offering images of rainbow flags and colorful painted steps.
While we know that love ultimately prevails, it can often feel hidden. When a family member turns away from you or you encounter a barrage of hate-filled messages from online trolls labeling you as an abomination or worse, it can seem like the world is indifferent to your struggles. But then, there are moments of overwhelming love that bring tears to your eyes.
Sweet Treats Bakery’s Experience
Take, for instance, the recent experience of Sweet Treats Bakery in Lufkin, Texas. On June 2, they shared a delightful photo of heart-shaped sugar cookies adorned with rainbow frosting, accompanied by a message that read, “More LOVE. Less hate. Happy Pride to all our LGBTQ friends! All lovers of cookies and happiness are welcome here.” Following this post, Sweet Treats lost a significant number of followers and even received a hateful message canceling a large order of summer-themed cookies they had just finished decorating.
“My heart is heavy,” their next day’s post expressed. “I never expected that a message promoting love would lead to such backlash for a small business that’s trying to bring joy through baked goods.” You could feel the weight of that pain.
However, the story took a hopeful turn. News of the canceled order spread on social media, leading to an outpouring of support. Sweet Treats was inundated with calls, messages, emails, and in-person orders, overwhelming the staff. They reported that the line was continuous from the moment they opened, and they sold out—not just of the cookies from the canceled order but of every item in their shop. Customers and supporters rallied, clearing their shelves. They even had to close early to bake more cookies to keep up with the demand from their newfound supporters. Many people stopped by to donate money, which Sweet Treats generously forwarded to local animal shelters.
The Duality of Community Support
This narrative is frustrating because it highlights the ugly side of humanity. Yet, it also showcases the brighter aspects—there are countless individuals ready to stand up for love and inclusion. The strength of community support is one of the most beautiful facets of being queer; we look out for each other and lift each other up when times are tough. Despite the setbacks, the queer community and its allies continue to make incredible strides.
As we navigate 2021, a year that has seen a record number of anti-LGBTQ bills, it’s essential to show your allyship. Those pushing these laws often do not comprehend the real impact of their actions. They cater to a specific voter base, promoting “family values” while trampling on the rights of those simply wishing to lead their lives authentically. Displays of support, like those shown to Sweet Treats, are vital in reminding lawmakers of what the majority truly believes.
To anyone opposing LGBTQIA+ rights, understand this: we will not be silenced. We are not broken; our love is not unnatural. We are made of love, and we strive to create a world that celebrates diversity. If you can’t embrace this message, you are on the wrong side of history. So, grab a rainbow cookie and celebrate love!
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In summary, Sweet Treats Bakery’s experience underscores the duality of being part of the LGBTQ+ community—facing harsh criticism while also receiving overwhelming support. It demonstrates the importance of allyship and the need for continued advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights in the face of adversity.