Dear Lily,
Congratulations! You’ve officially entered your teenage years. I imagined you would be thrilled about this milestone, but you seem to be taking it in stride, perhaps even with a hint of indifference.
I understand. The whirlwind of hormones, periods, and acne is not easy to navigate. Middle school is a challenging time, and soon high school will bring its own set of trials. You’re on a journey to discover who you are, and I wouldn’t want to be in your shoes right now. This phase can be overwhelming.
Just yesterday, you mentioned that birthdays feel trivial, as if they are merely reminders that we all eventually meet our end. That sentiment struck me hard because, truthfully, I struggle with similar thoughts. I tried to lift your spirits, but you brushed me off—understandably so. I hope that as time passes, my words will resonate with you.
Here’s the truth: Your life is significant. You matter deeply, and what you choose to do matters. You have the chance to make a positive impact on those around you, to love, serve, and aspire to something greater. I firmly believe you have a purpose that extends beyond this life. Remember, the beauty within you is extraordinary, and I eagerly anticipate witnessing all the ways you’ll touch the lives of others.
I confess, being your mom can be intimidating. I want to raise you well and avoid any baggage that might require therapy later on. I regret the divorce from your dad; I hope one day you can understand my reasons. Thank you for being so graceful during this time.
You have an incredible intellect. Please use it wisely. I appreciate your diligence in school, even if it feels pointless and you dread every day. Keep one word in mind: scholarships. They’re crucial for your future.
I admire your passion for equality, diversity, and your desire for a woman in the presidency—qualities I wish I had embraced at your age. Your concerns reach deeper than those of my generation, and I commend you for that.
I know I embarrass you sometimes—like when I laugh too loudly or chat with strangers. Trust me, I went through the same thing with my mom. It’s okay; you’ll come to terms with it, just as I did.
Please, try to avoid lying. It’s a slippery slope, and I know this from both sides. Be truthful with me. I promise to respect your honesty, even when it’s hard.
It’s natural to seek distance as you explore your identity. Just remember, I’m always here for you when you need me. I’m just a heartbeat away, waiting to support you.
You mentioned you don’t want a job or to work. I wish you luck with that! If you discover a way to make money without working, please share your secret. I’m all in for that!
I am endlessly grateful to call you my daughter, even when you give me the silent treatment in the mornings. Thank you for those afternoons we spent watching Downton Abbey together. That’s love right there.
I love you dearly.
With all my heart,
Mama
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Summary
As you celebrate your 13th birthday, remember that your life has meaning and your journey is just beginning. Embrace the challenges ahead while knowing that I’m here to support you. You’re capable of making a positive impact in the world, and I look forward to seeing how you grow and evolve.