Dear Parent,
I want to share my story with you. I am a dedicated Respiratory Therapist (RT) who worked in the largest Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) in my province. Our facility received the most critically ill newborns from distances of up to 1000 kilometers (around 700 miles). It was my role to help these fragile infants breathe, and while I celebrated many small victories, there were also days when I had to provide their last breaths.
For some families, the journey began with a prenatal scan that revealed troubling news, leading to a planned transfer to our hospital. For others, the heartbreak came unexpectedly at birth. Regardless of the circumstances, it was clear that if a baby was in need of such advanced care, the situation was dire.
Babies may enter the NICU for various reasons—congenital heart defects, infections, or being born too soon. Each baby came with unique struggles, and I devoted myself to managing the life support systems that kept them alive. Every day, I made tiny adjustments to optimize their breathing, conducted tests, and administered treatments, all in an effort to give them the chance they deserved.
Yet, part of my duty involved the heart-wrenching decision to remove life support when there was no hope left. I focused intensely on the most critical cases, spending countless hours at your baby’s bedside, learning about your lives while we kept our eyes on the little one we both cherished.
When the moment arrived to say goodbye, your family gathered in that small, somber room—once filled with hope, now heavy with grief. My team meticulously planned how to ensure you felt comforted in your decision to let go. With a nod from you, I took the final step, delivering your baby’s last breath, removing the tubes and wires, and placing them in your loving arms.
As I quietly left the room, I knew you needed space to say farewell. I held back my tears, wanting you to feel assured you were making the right choice for your baby. Now, I want you to know that I was heartbroken too. You never should have faced such a decision, but the strength you showed will always be admired.
Becoming a parent myself has deepened my understanding of your experience. You made an incredibly selfless choice, freeing your child from pain. My hope is that you have found your own peace since then. Your baby’s memory remains etched in my heart.
Years later, I still carry the memory of your angel with me.
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In summary, this letter serves as a reflection on the challenges faced by families in the NICU, emphasizing the deep connections formed between caregivers and parents during times of unimaginable sorrow. It highlights the love and strength shown by parents in their most difficult moments.