To my sweet middle child, Oliver, thank you. The moment you came into this world, weighing a hefty 10 pounds 5 ounces, I was completely captivated. I never could have predicted, back on that sunny day in May, the incredible person you would grow up to be. You are, without a doubt, the most loving and kind-hearted child I have ever known. Your unique perspective on life is something I often wish I could experience firsthand, just to grasp the profound kindness that radiates from your heart. You are an absolute delight.
Often, you find yourself simply along for the ride in our bustling household, sandwiched between your two older brothers and younger sister. Yet you take it all in stride, hardly ever complaining about keeping an eye on your little sister or being the third wheel with your brothers. You’ve practically raised yourself while I’ve been busy managing the chaos of our family. With siblings aged 13 and 11, and a five-year-old sister, you, at eight, often just want to be acknowledged at the dinner table. For that, I sincerely apologize. You truly deserve more attention than I sometimes manage to give, and I vow to improve.
Your wardrobe may be filled with hand-me-downs, but you never seem to mind. Instead, you light up at the chance to pick out something new, never taking anything for granted. You are a dream when it comes to following directions—never needing a second reminder to get out of bed or brush your teeth. Your cheerful “Yes, ma’am” always comes with a smile. Unlike anyone else in our family, you tackle your spelling words and homework immediately after school. You are truly a mother’s dream come true.
Perhaps you were sent to us as our peacemaker. When you arrived as my third son, I had my doubts about how chaotic life would become. But you have brought a sense of calm amidst the noise. You often retreat into your own world, leaving the drama to your siblings. They may tease you from time to time, but you stand your ground and won’t hesitate to defend yourself, keeping them on their toes.
Your sister was born when you were just three, so your time as the baby was short-lived. But your arrival was a dramatic one, and I felt incredibly grateful that you were healthy. Our bond has been special ever since. I shamelessly treat you like my baby and make no apologies for it. You are forever the youngest of my boys, and that will never change.
The freckles on your nose and the dimple in your cheek light up my world whenever you smile. Honestly, you’re always smiling! I can only imagine how difficult that must be sometimes, especially when your older brothers choose the movies or hog the PlayStation. Yet you patiently wait your turn and find something else to enjoy. I truly don’t know how I got so lucky to have you.
I often tell all four of you that you are my favorites, and it’s true for so many reasons. Most importantly, you are the kindest child I have ever known. I hope you always remain this way. You openly express “I love you” to everyone in our family, without any hesitation. Your emotional openness is a beautiful trait.
You are incredibly generous with your time and talents. The refrigerator is decorated with your artwork from school and home, which you create with such pride and dedication. My favorite gifts are the things you make, and I’ve saved many of them, treasures I will cherish forever.
My dear Oliver, I cannot thank you enough for being such a wonderful part of our family. You are always willing to help, whether it’s at the grocery store or organizing shoes on the steps. Your work ethic will serve you well in the future. I hope you never feel overshadowed in our busy household. Even when you think you’re unnoticed, I see you. I recognize the wonderful gift you are to our entire family.
Keep being yourself, my dear boy. You may feel like you’re at the bottom of our family’s totem pole, but in my heart, you will always be at the very top.
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Summary
This heartfelt tribute celebrates the unique qualities of my middle child, Oliver, highlighting his kindness, patience, and individuality amidst the chaos of family life. Despite being in the middle of the sibling hierarchy, he shines brightly with his loving nature and willingness to help.