Today, I’m excited to share the ten most rewarding aspects of raising three children. While I could try to make a comparison with something that comes in threes, it’s tough to find a fitting analogy. Maybe eyes, since with three kids, it feels like you need to grow one on the back of your head! Here’s a lighthearted look at the benefits of having three little ones:
- Never Alone: With three kids, loneliness is a thing of the past. I once told my eldest, who often complains of boredom, that I was lonely as an only child. She responded, “That’s how I feel when I’m awake, but my siblings are still asleep.” Sorry, but that doesn’t quite cut it! Until she has to dress up her stuffed animals, she can’t really understand true loneliness.
- Sibling Options: When the older two squabble, they can always divert their attention to the youngest. Unfortunately, this often leads to chaotic battles over who gets to entertain the baby, but hey, at least they have options!
- Clothing Hand-Me-Downs: The girls are nearly the same size, allowing for plenty of shared wardrobes. The baby benefits too, receiving unisex hand-me-downs like that adorable denim jacket. At least it’s a win for the girls!
- Built-In Excuses: Having three kids under five gives me a perfect excuse for just about anything. “Sorry, we can’t go on that trip because we have three little ones.” Or, “Apologies for the messy house; three kids under five!” It’s a handy shield against most social obligations.
- Cuteness Overload: There’s always one child who’s ready to be irresistibly adorable. The moment one acts out, the others seem to step up their game. For instance, my middle child often shows her affection the moment her sister is in timeout!
- Constant Playmates: Imagine the fun my kids have, never needing to play alone. If my daughter were an only child, she’d have to find someone to play Anna to her Elsa. Instead, both roles are taken, and the baby rotates as Olaf or Prince Hans!
- Protection in Numbers: When we arrive at the playground, it’s like a trio of superheroes entering the scene. No one dares mess with them, and my oldest is fiercely protective of her younger siblings, which is quite admirable.
- Never a Dull Moment: While there are certainly times that feel monotonous, each child brings their own unique quirks, keeping things interesting. I can easily switch my focus from one to the other, providing small doses of novelty throughout the day.
- No Unwanted Advice: I rarely encounter anyone with four or more kids, likely because they’re knee-deep in laundry. It’s a rare day when someone with fewer children offers me parenting tips, especially after successfully managing three kids under five for an extended period.
- Unbreakable Bonds: The most beautiful part of having three children is witnessing their love for each other. Each time my daughters declare they are best friends or when one calls the baby “the best little one ever,” it makes every sleepless night and extra gray hair worth it.
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In summary, while parenting three kids can be chaotic, it’s also filled with laughter, love, and unforgettable moments that make every challenge worthwhile.