Before I had children, I often rolled my eyes at people who insisted, “You can’t truly understand parenting until you experience it yourself.” I thought I knew the drill—sure, kids are adorable, but they also require a ton of effort! That’s why people get dogs first, right? Well, now that I’m a parent of three, I’m here to share the unfiltered truth: YOU REALLY DON’T KNOW UNTIL YOU’VE BEEN THERE. I apologize for the all-caps yelling, but it’s just so accurate.
If I could offer advice to new parents, I wouldn’t waste time on the obvious life changes. Instead, I’d invite them to sit back, relax, maybe have a glass of wine, and prepare for some real talk. Here we go…
#1: Kids Are Really, Really Messy
While it’s common knowledge that kids are messy—think diaper blowouts, spit-up, and the like—nothing can prepare you for the sheer volume of cleanup you’ll face. It’s not just diapers; it’s the moments when your little one decides to let loose right in the middle of a busy mall (yikes!). Or when they forget to pull their pants down in the stall at Target. You will encounter these incidents more often than you’d like, and trust me, you’ll find some of that mess on you too.
And let’s not forget about the infamous booger-eating phase. Yes, every child goes through it, and it’s just as gross as it sounds. They’ll also discover hidden treasures like old fries under the couch or half-eaten candy on the floor. You might wish this were all a joke.
#2: Kids Are Just As Dirty as They Are Messy
Before having kids, I had a vague idea that they’d be dirty, but I underestimated the extent. Crumbs will infiltrate every corner of your home, even places you wouldn’t think to look, like the toothpaste tube. Your car? Forget about it. It will be a minefield of crushed snacks and sticky remnants.
And everything will be covered in a thin layer of stickiness. Your toys, furniture, and even your phone will require constant cleaning. Stock up on cleaning supplies and a good stain remover—you’ll need it!
#3: Kids Accumulate Toys at an Alarming Rate
You know kids love toys, but what you don’t realize until you’re knee-deep in plastic is how quickly your home will resemble a toy store that just had an explosion. Even if you try to limit toy purchases, family and friends will shower your kids with gifts that beep, squeak, or otherwise drive you insane.
Before you know it, you’ll be buying storage bins just to contain the chaos, and any organizational system you start with will go out the window as you simply toss everything into whatever container is handy.
#4: Kids Are Mini Moochers
When it comes to food, kids can be unpredictable. Whether they’re voracious eaters or picky eaters, one thing is certain: they will want a bite of whatever you’re having. “Can I have just one bite?” will become a daily refrain, regardless of the food.
If you want to enjoy your meal, you have two choices: either don’t share at all or give them a big forkful of something they’ll find disgusting. Either way, you’ll likely end up hiding in the kitchen to eat in peace.
#5: Kids Have a Unique Sleep Schedule
Everyone knows new parents suffer from sleep deprivation, but wait until you experience the unpredictability of a toddler’s sleep patterns. Just when you think you’ve established a routine, your child will throw a wrench in your plans.
Expect them to sleep in on days you need to be somewhere early and wake up at the crack of dawn when you have the luxury of a sleep-in day. They’ll keep you guessing!
#6: Kids Are Incredibly Needy
Let’s be real: newborns require constant attention. But what’s less discussed is how that neediness morphs as they grow. Even as they become more independent, their demands will evolve, and you’ll find yourself on call 24/7.
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In conclusion, parenting is a wild ride filled with unexpected surprises and challenges. From messes to mooching, it’s a journey that will undoubtedly change your perspective completely.
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