If you’re ever in need of a parenting pick-me-up, consider volunteering for a field trip. I recently accompanied my child’s second-grade class to a theater, and it was quite the eye-opener. I witnessed numerous parents who seemed perfectly fine sending their kids off with shirts unbuttoned, pants that didn’t fit, shoes untied, messy hair, and faces adorned with various crusty remnants. And this was no ordinary school day—it was a field trip to the theater!
Perhaps these parents have already embraced a truth that many of us are still grappling with: Kids can be messy, and it’s often pointless to fight it. Regardless of their reasons, I want to extend my gratitude to these parents because their choices made me feel a lot better about my own parenting attempts.
So, here’s my thank-you note:
To the parents of the child who came with two days’ worth of snot on his face: At first, I wondered if his mother even glanced at him before leaving the house. However, seeing him made me check my own child’s face, only to discover that he too had boogers around his nostrils. I thought I reminded him to eat breakfast and brush his teeth, but maybe I should have looked a bit closer.
To the parents of the charming girl who sat beside me on the bus, sharing her riveting story about how her mother spent “practically all day” combing lice out of her hair: Let me tell you, I slicked my hair back into a ponytail faster than ever. But thank you, truly. Your story helped me feel less embarrassed about my childhood lice experiences and made me think twice about how many times my kids might face that unfortunate situation in the next decade. And now I can’t stop scratching my head!
To the parents of the boy who excitedly described his new motor home, four-wheeler, computer, and the house with a pool that had a slide—along with the fact that his uncle was living in his “old” house, the one the bank took: This made me feel much better about our short sale from seven years ago. When can we arrange a playdate? I’d love for my family to experience your toys!
To the parents of the child whose lunch consisted of a pre-packaged PB&J, a long fruit roll-up, a chocolate rice crispy treat, Cheez-Its, and chocolate milk: Honestly, you’ve made me feel pretty good about my own lunch choices. I might be a bit judgy here, but maybe your kid doesn’t engage in tail-chewing or wall-scraping like mine does when I provide healthier snacks.
To the parents of the child who constantly ran ahead of the group, lagged behind, hid away, and attempted to headbutt everyone—oh wait, that was my kid! Never mind.
To the parents of the child who needed water every ten seconds and asked me to hold his hat and jacket: I appreciate you making me feel justified in having my child wait and do things according to my schedule. I feel better about encouraging him to be independent—except for shoe-tying, which he just learned two weeks ago (not my fault Velcro shoes are always on sale!).
To the parents of the girl who loudly boasted that her breath smelled terrible and admitted to not brushing her teeth, displaying her five silver crowns: Thank you for motivating me to put my kids in headlocks tonight and brush their teeth twice. I’d rather deal with lice than face those dental bills!
To all these parents: Each of you, in your own unique way, made me feel better about my parenting journey. I appreciate you for reminding me that I’m not totally failing at this chaotic job we call parenting—at least, not alone.
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In summary, every parent has their struggles and triumphs. It’s comforting to know that we’re all navigating the messy chaos of parenting together, each with our own quirks and challenges.