Dear Friend,
I appreciate our connection, and I want to address something that often goes unsaid between us. While I embrace alternative parenting styles, from organic food to attachment parenting, there’s one crucial topic we seem to sidestep: vaccinations. My children are fully vaccinated, while yours haven’t received any shots.
We typically avoid discussing vaccines because, much like politics, there’s little common ground. I trust the scientific consensus provided by organizations like the CDC, AAP, and WHO. I’ve thoroughly researched the subject, reviewed package inserts, and considered various perspectives. In the end, I chose to vaccinate my children.
Conversely, you have your reasons for not vaccinating, which I may view as misguided, but I respect your autonomy in making that choice. I value our friendship too much to pretend that I think we’re equally right; I believe my decision is correct and yours is mistaken. Still, that doesn’t have to create a rift between us, especially in light of recent disease outbreaks.
Let me be clear: I care deeply for you, and I have a strong aversion to preventable diseases. The moment I hear about a measles case within a certain radius, my kids will be kept away from unvaccinated peers (at least until they complete their MMR vaccinations). This isn’t personal; it’s about keeping my children safe. While you might feel I’m overreacting, please bear with me here.
We both understand the contagious nature of diseases like measles. Just as you worry about potential vaccine injuries, I’m concerned about conditions like meningitis and encephalitis. So, if your kids have been around anyone who’s sick, I’d appreciate a heads-up. If you plan on attending a pox party, please let me know in advance. The varicella virus can spread before symptoms appear, and I want to ensure our kids are protected.
In return, I promise to keep you informed when my children receive vaccinations, especially any live-virus shots. I understand your concerns regarding vaccine shedding, and while I don’t share them, I want to respect your feelings as a parent.
Above all, I commit to maintaining respect in our discussions. While I may disagree with your views on vaccines, I don’t see you as lacking intelligence or understanding. Just as we can discuss various public policy issues and maintain our friendship, we can navigate this topic too. I hope you can extend the same courtesy to me.
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In summary, while we may not see eye-to-eye on vaccination, I value our friendship and believe we can navigate these differences respectfully.