Today, I’d like to share the ten most delightful aspects of having three little ones. It seems there aren’t many things that come in threes, so let’s go with eyes—because with three kids, you’ll definitely need a rearview perspective! Here are the ten best perks of having three children:
- Never Alone: Having three kids means they’re never bored or lonely. I once mentioned to my eldest that I felt lonely as an only child. Her response? “I feel lonely when I’m awake, but Leo and Mia are still asleep.” Sorry, kid, but that’s a stretch. Until you’ve dressed your stuffed animals for company on the couch, let’s not equate that to loneliness.
- Conflict Resolution: When my older two squabble, they can always shift their focus to bickering over who gets to play with the youngest. It seems my initial thought of this being a good arrangement didn’t quite pan out.
- Hand-Me-Downs: The girls are nearly the same size, which means plenty of shared clothing. The youngest benefits too, with unisex hand-me-downs like that adorable denim jacket. At least it works for them!
- Built-In Excuses: “Sorry, we can’t make it to that event; we have three kids under five.” This excuse works for almost everything—from messy homes to lost connections. Even when I accidentally hit your dog, I can just blame it on the kids!
- Cuteness Overload: One of the kids is always showing off their adorable side. As soon as one acts up, the others seem to think, “Now it’s my time to shine!” For instance, my middle child steps in with “I love you, Mommy” whenever the oldest is in timeout, radiating joy like a mischievous halo.
- Constant Playmates: If my daughter were an only child, she would have to play Anna to her own Elsa. With three kids, there’s no shortage of participants for imaginative games, and the youngest gets to play Olaf, Sven, or Prince Hans without ever missing a beat.
- Solidarity Against Outsiders: At the playground, my trio walks in like the Pink Ladies from Grease—minus the charm and with a diaper bag in tow. No one dares to mess with three kids, and my eldest is fiercely protective of her siblings.
- Never a Dull Moment: Just kidding! It can actually be quite monotonous at times. Yet, each child brings their own unique charm, and the little moments of chaos provide enough variety to keep my sanity in check.
- No Parenting Advice: Few can boast having four or more children, likely because they’re busy tackling laundry. I rarely encounter anyone with fewer kids who dares to offer me parenting tips, especially after successfully managing three under five for over a year.
- Sibling Love: This is the heartwarming reason I decided to have three kids. Each time my daughters declare each other their best friends or one affectionately calls my son “the best baby in the world,” I feel a mix of joy and a bit more gray hair. Here’s hoping they keep it up!
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Summary
Raising three children brings a whirlwind of joy, chaos, and many unique advantages. From built-in playmates to constant cuteness and the ability to deflect unsolicited parenting advice, it’s a journey filled with love and laughter—even if it sometimes feels a bit monotonous. Ultimately, the bond they share makes all the challenges worthwhile.