There are certain subjects that tend to put people to sleep. Here’s a list of 14 topics that most people will find utterly uninteresting.
- Your daily carb intake.
- The dream you had last night.
- Any dream at all—unless it involves the person you’re speaking with, then it becomes fascinating.
- Diets that haven’t worked for you.
- Your latest obsession with a person.
- Your idea for an organic food blog that is based on your life experiences, such as your dreams, your crush, and your Too-Many-Carbs-Today Kale Salad recipe.
- How your child said something cute, but it’s something every child has said since the beginning of time—think, “You’re the best mama ever!”
- The three shirts you ordered online, one of which doesn’t fit, leading to a discussion about returns and your uncertainty about sizes and colors.
- The intricacies of breast pumping.
- Nipple confusion or your back-and-forth thoughts about whether to hire a lactation consultant.
- Your baby’s fontanelle—though cradle cap is a conversation starter!
- Anything related to your “spiritual practice,” your “journey,” or the role of “Loving-kindness” in your life. Oh, and please don’t mention your “mentor.”
- A weekend spent at a wellness retreat.
- Catchphrases that will get you labeled as tedious: “It is what it is,” “At the end of the day…” and “I’m the kind of person who…”
On a brighter note, sometimes we underestimate our own ability to entertain. We may feel dull or unfunny, but we can easily fill conversations with engaging topics that pique interest. Here are 14 suggestions for lively discussion:
- How you spent a weekend in a less-than-ideal situation, like jail.
- Creative and unusual baby names, such as “Endless Spiral” or “Levity.”
- Teach others about “The Annoying Party” game—invite the most annoying people you can think of!
- Secret homemade remedies for common ailments.
- Health-related topics that spark curiosity.
- An intriguing article you found online about self-discovery.
- Holistic approaches to podiatry.
- Inadvertently inappropriate things your child has said—like “I want the dog to come on me!”
- Amusing typos you’ve seen on dating profiles.
- Life hacks that make daily tasks easier.
- Your best-kept secret, like how to catch a cab when you need one quickly.
- Anything related to the show “Transparent.”
- A line of children’s clothing for adults that you wish existed.
- How to refresh your wardrobe in under an hour by dyeing your clothes.
Good luck navigating your next social gathering! For more ideas, check out our blog post on couples’ fertility journeys.
Summary:
Engaging in conversation can sometimes feel daunting, especially when it comes to topics that might bore your audience. However, with a few creative ideas and a willingness to share personal stories or amusing anecdotes, you can transform any dull moment into a lively discussion. From quirky baby names to fascinating life hacks, there are plenty of subjects that can spark interest and keep the conversation flowing.