There’s a prevailing notion that our overwhelming access to convenience paralyzes us, leaving us incapable of making choices. While there’s truth to this, I believe it doesn’t fully explain why we may forgo our first meditation class in favor of binge-watching an entire season of a show. It’s far too simple to remain stationary, choosing the comfort of our homes over taking action, and it’s even easier to stay emotionally stagnant. Most of us realize that our long-standing issues stem from unconscious beliefs; when we choose to remain where we are instead of moving forward, we are submitting to that hidden part of ourselves.
I contend that maintaining our health is challenging because we are often subconsciously committed to staying stuck in our old identities—whether that’s being viewed as the weak one, the outsider, or the one who’s broken. We cling to outdated narratives and rely on thought patterns formed in childhood, finding solace in the familiar perspectives we developed back then. When we fail to question these views, we naturally revert to them. Each time we decide against doing something we know would benefit us, we are falling back on those entrenched beliefs.
Reflecting on my childhood, I can’t help but think of my stepfather, who had an obsession with gadgets. He installed intercoms in every room and often eavesdropped on our conversations. Our basement was a treasure trove of cords, parts, and equipment he might use someday. One evening, he excitedly brought home a Betamax VCR, convinced it was the future of home entertainment.
However, that belief quickly proved erroneous, as Betamax became obsolete almost overnight, hardly leaving a mark on our past. Similarly, the unconscious images we hold of ourselves—those we don’t even realize are guiding our decisions—act like that Betamax. We can continue using them to shape our stories, but it’s far more beneficial to invest in our future and discard these outdated models.
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In summary, we often find ourselves trapped in a cycle of old beliefs and narratives, hindering our growth and progress. By acknowledging these patterns and seeking out better resources, we can begin to reshape our identities and futures.