Motherhood is a journey that reshapes your perspective in unexpected ways. As someone who grew up in the 80s, I have fond memories of classic films that once brought me joy but now elicit a different emotional response. Here are seven movies that took on new meanings as I transitioned into motherhood.
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Adventures in Babysitting
As a child: I relished the idea of babysitting adventures, college crushes, and hilarious escapades with friends.
As a mom: This film now embodies every parent’s nightmare. The thought of leaving my kids unsupervised sends chills down my spine. -
Stand By Me
As a child: The thrill of a kid-centric adventure, where we could roam free without adults, was exhilarating.
As a mom: The sheer danger these kids faced is overwhelming. Between the train, the junkyard dog, and a very disturbed character, my anxiety spikes just thinking about it. -
Beaches
As a child: I adored Bette Midler and dreamed of Broadway fame while singing along to the soundtrack.
As a mom: The tragic fate of Barbara Hershey’s character? A heart-wrenching reality I could never bear to watch during pregnancy. -
The Breakfast Club
As a child: This film was revolutionary and cool, despite the clunky TV edits. I knew every line by heart.
As a mom: My thoughts are now filled with concern for my child’s well-being and the absence of practical life skills in school. Also, I can’t believe they smoked in the library! -
The Karate Kid
As a child: The idea of learning karate from a mentor was thrilling and aspirational.
As a mom: The red flags of an older man spending time with my son alone are glaringly obvious now. Would I really allow that? -
Back to the Future
As a child: I found Doc Brown’s eccentricity and the time-travel plot utterly captivating.
As a mom: The implications of my kid meeting my teen self? No thank you! The generational gap is just too much to contemplate. -
The Goonies
As a child: The adventure and camaraderie in this film were everything I wanted.
As a mom: The sheer negligence of the parents and the danger the kids faced are hard to overlook. Where were the adults when all this was happening?
Motherhood isn’t merely an aspect of life; it becomes your entire being. It’s something you embody every day, influencing how you see the world around you. As you navigate this journey, you may find yourself questioning everything—much like the characters in these childhood classics.
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In summary, many childhood movies take on a whole new significance once you become a parent. The lighthearted adventures of youth can quickly transform into cautionary tales filled with anxiety and concern.