Colic can be a challenging experience for parents, often defined by the “rule of three”: if your baby cries for over three hours a day, three times a week, for three weeks straight, a pediatrician is likely to diagnose colic. This condition is sometimes humorously referred to as the 11th ring of parenting hell.
The medical community has varying opinions on the underlying causes of colic, which affects about one in five infants. It tends to occur at the same time each day, primarily in the evenings. While all babies cry, persistent fussiness does not automatically indicate colic.
Signs of Colic Include:
- Crying that is louder, higher-pitched, and more intense than usual
- Sudden onset of crying with no clear reason
- Excessive and inconsolable crying at the same time each evening
- A rigid or stiff body, often with clenched fists
- Curling up of legs and tensed stomach muscles
- A bloated appearance of the tummy
- Some parents describe their colicky babies as seeming angry, in pain, or constipated
When Does Colic Start and End?
Colic typically appears when a baby is around 2 to 3 weeks old and usually resolves by the time the baby reaches four months, although this can vary. While it may feel unending, it’s important to remember that it will eventually pass.
Should You Consult a Doctor?
Yes, it’s advisable to discuss your concerns with your baby’s pediatrician if crying is frequent or you suspect colic. The doctor will want to rule out other potential issues, such as illnesses or gastrointestinal problems, and ensure that your baby is feeding and growing appropriately.
Other Reasons to Seek Medical Attention:
- Additional symptoms like fever, vomiting, or diarrhea
- Crying that might stem from a fall, injury, or illness
- A bluish tint to the skin during crying spells
- Any notable changes in eating, sleeping, or behavior beyond crying
For a more efficient visit, consider keeping a log of crying episodes, sleep patterns, and feeding times. This information can assist the pediatrician in making a more informed diagnosis.
What Can You Do in the Meantime?
Once other conditions have been ruled out and your pediatrician confirms that it’s colic, they may suggest gas drops or gripe water. Often, however, doctors advise parents to practice patience, as colic, while exasperating, is not harmful and will eventually subside.
Here are some strategies for coping with a colicky baby:
- Remind yourself that crying will not harm her. Taking a brief break for a shower or walk is perfectly okay.
- Understand that this situation is not your fault. Feelings of frustration are common and normal; you didn’t cause this, and it won’t last forever. Focus on getting through each day one at a time.
- It’s okay to feel anger or resentment, but if your emotions become overwhelming, seek help immediately. Ensure your baby is safe, and take a moment to step away if needed. Talk to your doctor about your feelings.
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Summary
Colic is a common condition in infants characterized by excessive crying and fussiness, typically manifesting in the evening. While it can be distressing for parents, it’s important to consult a pediatrician to rule out other health concerns. With patience and self-care strategies, this challenging phase will eventually pass.