Dear Mia and Noah,
As I woke up this morning, the reality that today marks your first day at a new school washed over me. You’re stepping into a new chapter in your lives, and during our morning routine, I found myself reflecting on all the things I wish to share with you. These are sentiments I’ve expressed before, but as your mom, I feel it’s important to reiterate them.
As I gently entered your room and kissed you awake, I wanted to remind you that I understand how it feels to be the new kid. Those butterflies in your stomach are natural, and it’s completely okay to wonder if you’ll make friends. Always believe in yourself, because I certainly do.
While you stretched your little arms and rubbed your sleepy eyes, I thought about how overwhelming it can be to navigate both the physical space and social dynamics of a new environment. Remember, finding your way is a lifelong journey, so never lose hope.
Standing at the bathroom door while you brushed your teeth, I wanted to convey that being the new kid can sometimes feel like a disadvantage, but it can also be your greatest strength. Embrace this adventure with open arms.
As I laid out your clothes, I wished to tell you that your uniqueness will attract others to you. Some may not accept you, but that’s okay; it’s their loss, not yours.
While preparing your lunch at the counter, I encouraged you to face this new experience with positivity. Though it may seem strange and daunting today, it will soon become a familiar routine. That’s the beauty of life’s cycles.
I included a note in your lunchbox—something we’ve made a tradition—to remind you to wear your best smile. A simple smile can be the beginning of wonderful friendships. They say a picture can say a thousand words; I believe a smile can do even more.
As you enjoyed your breakfast at the counter, I wanted to remind you that if you find yourself feeling uncomfortable today, just take a deep breath. You’ll be surprised at how a few calming breaths can shift your perspective.
When I helped you tie your shoes, I emphasized the importance of finding one good friend. Remember, it’s quality over quantity.
As I placed your backpack on your small shoulders, my heart felt torn. I want to keep you close to me, safe and sound, yet I also want you to experience the world outside. Don’t rush to grow up.
As we climbed into the car, I expressed my hopes that everyone you meet today sees you as I do: intelligent, kind, compassionate, and funny. It’s crucial that you see yourself that way too.
While buckling your seatbelt, I reminded you that not everyone will share your interests or values. Embrace those differences; they could lead to unexpected friendships.
As I adjusted my mirrors, I caught a glimpse of you in the backseat and wanted you to know that patience is key—both with yourself and others. Time has a way of guiding us through the ups and downs.
As I backed out of the driveway, I wanted to encourage you to try new things. That’s the beauty of starting fresh.
On our short drive to school, I urged you to be attentive. Listening is a skill that will serve you well throughout life.
Pulling into the drop-off lane, I reminded you to follow instructions but also to speak your mind when necessary. Your voice matters.
As you stepped out of the car, I gave you each a hug and said, “Just be yourselves, and remember how much I love you. I can’t wait to hear all about your day.”
In that moment, I realized that these simple words were what you truly needed to hear.
With all my love,
Mom