This year, rather than setting New Year’s resolutions that I’ll likely abandon within days—like cutting back on snacks, swearing less, or reducing my screen time—I’ve decided to focus on a few achievable goals. No, scratch that. I WILL stick to these goals.
Lowering Expectations
To begin, I resolve to lower my expectations of myself. Last year was a whirlwind of excitement but also a challenging time. Instead of celebrating my own accomplishments, I found myself constantly measuring my success against others who seemed to be achieving even more. My own achievements felt inadequate because I was fixated on outdoing myself.
This year, I’m aiming for a more realistic approach. I don’t need to pen the most bestselling book or embark on a massive tour or accumulate rave reviews. What I truly need to do is relax, take pleasure in the journey, and not take myself too seriously. This applies not just to my writing endeavors but to every aspect of my life.
Mastering the Art of Saying No
Additionally, I want to hone my ability to say “no.” No, I can’t shuffle my plans to assist at school on short notice. No, I can’t take the lead on that board I genuinely care about. No, I won’t find a babysitter just to accommodate someone else’s schedule.
If something doesn’t work for me, I resolve to say no confidently, without excessive apologies or second-guessing myself. Just simply, no. It should be straightforward to ease up on myself and recognize my boundaries. And of course, I should also drink more water.
Creating Space for Setbacks
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Conclusion
In summary, this year is about embracing a more compassionate approach to self-expectation, mastering the art of saying no, and allowing room for mistakes while staying hydrated!