Years spent browsing through holiday catalogs and exploring festive Pinterest boards have led me to envision Christmas morning with my children as a series of picture-perfect scenes, reminiscent of a Norman Rockwell painting, accompanied by soothing Josh Groban carols. Many parents have similar fantasies about the joy of gift-giving on Christmas morning, and while the memories are indeed unforgettable, they often unfold in ways that are far from what we initially imagined. Here’s a glimpse into the true experience of Christmas morning with little ones.
Expectation
You will quietly tiptoe into your children’s rooms to gently wake them with a cheerful “Merry Christmas!” and a warm embrace. Together, you’ll open the curtains to reveal a breathtaking, snowy landscape. Dressed in matching bathrobes, you’ll then head downstairs to unwrap presents as a harmonious family.
Reality
Instead, you’re jolted awake in the early hours by a whirlwind of energy, as your child shouts, “Get UP, get UP! It’s CHRISTMAS!” at a volume that rouses the baby, who promptly begins to cry. You glance at the clock—it’s barely six in the morning. As you throw on an old hoodie, you catch a whiff of something far from festive wafting from your youngest. You hastily dress her in the first clean clothes you can find and let your oldest lead the way downstairs.
Expectation
You and your partner will sit cozily on the couch with the baby snuggled between you. Enjoying a warm cup of coffee, your oldest will nibble on delicious cinnamon rolls while eagerly opening their stocking, relishing each delightful discovery. After breakfast, you’ll take turns handing out gifts, sharing in the joy of each present as you capture the moment with your camera.
Reality
Your older child, fueled by hunger, is adamant about wanting eggs instead of the cinnamon rolls you’ve prepared. In a bid for compromise, he brings his stocking to the table while you juggle feeding the baby and whipping up scrambled eggs. Every now and then, he demands your attention, eager to show off his stocking treasures. Just as you serve him his eggs, he decides he’d rather have a cinnamon roll. Thank goodness for pre-packaged treats!
Once everyone is fed, you finally migrate to the living room to open gifts. Your child dives into the pile of presents, which is predominantly filled with items for him. The anticipated snow you hoped for manifests as a blizzard of wrapping paper scattered across the floor. When your older child pauses to hand a gift to the baby, you scramble to find your phone to capture the moment only to realize it’s still on your nightstand. You mentally note the scene, hoping to recreate it later for social media.
Expectation
You envision your children being thrilled with every gift, especially when your older child opens the much-coveted toy you promised, clearly labeled as from you, not Santa. Once the excitement settles, they’ll express their heartfelt gratitude with a warm embrace, leaving you teary-eyed from pride and joy.
Reality
The baby is more interested in chewing on the box than the toy inside. When you finally help her unwrap something, she shows little interest in the new gift but happily embraces the empty box. Meanwhile, you completely miss your older child’s reaction to his big gift because you’re occupied wrestling some tinsel from the baby’s grasp. When you ask him if he’s excited, he responds with a half-hearted “Yeah, sure, thanks,” while barely glancing up from his new toy. You try to shake off your disappointment, focusing instead on the fact that he seems content.
As you grab a trash bag to tackle the wrapping paper chaos, reality sets in—parenting duties are calling again, though perhaps you can enjoy a cozy new robe as you dive back into the routine.
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In summary, Christmas morning with kids is a delightful mix of chaos and joy, filled with unexpected surprises that often stray far from our idealized visions. While the moments may not always align with our dreams, the laughter and love shared create priceless memories that last a lifetime.