As a parent of four, I have spent over eleven years navigating the chaotic waters of parenthood. In that time, I’ve learned that certain truths are as inescapable as death and taxes. Here are five somewhat daunting yet ultimately universal aspects of parenting that I’ve encountered — and if you haven’t faced these yet, please don’t enlighten me. I prefer to believe we’re all in this wild, messy journey together.
1. You Will Experience Bodily Fluids in Abundance
Prepare yourself: your little one will inevitably vomit, poop, and pee on you. It could happen all in one day, or even within the same hour. Rarely, you might find yourself in the midst of the “Hat Trick” — where all three occur in a single minute. You may never become accustomed to it, but over time, you will become less shocked. This realization might prompt you to consider indulging in something extravagant, like a white leather handbag or a sports car, to compensate for your new reality. But then reality hits, and you remember you’re drenched in someone else’s fluids, so a simple shower will have to suffice.
2. Your Child Will Face Aggression from Peers
When toddlers collide, chaos can ensue. Just the other week, during a seemingly routine play session, my 18-month-old daughter found herself in a tussle with another toddler. The encounter resulted in her hair being yanked out and some minor scratches. The other mother was understandably upset as I helped my daughter regain her composure. Despite feeling concern for my child, I also sympathized with the other parent, understanding that kids can be unpredictable.
3. Your Child Will Exhibit Aggressive Behaviors
There was a time when my firstborn, at just two years old, found himself on the receiving end of a bite during playgroup. This unfortunate incident triggered a week-long phase where he decided biting was an appropriate form of interaction. It culminated in him leaving teeth marks on a friend’s child’s cheek over a toy dispute. My husband and I were mortified. What on earth were we doing wrong? Thankfully, this was a phase, and he hasn’t bitten anyone since, so it appears he won’t be a future cannibal.
4. Emergency Room Visits Are Inevitable
As a mother of three boys and one little girl, I’ve had my fair share of ER visits. From high fevers to playground mishaps, I’ve dealt with a multitude of injuries, including a chin split open from a fall and a toe infection. The quick transition from “everything is fine” to “time to visit the ER” is something I still struggle with. While I don’t do well with blood, I’ve learned to accept that this chaos is part of my parenting journey. I’m also grateful for health insurance.
5. Your Belongings Will Be Destroyed
Here’s a pro tip: if you’re expecting a baby, toss out every Sharpie in sight. Children seem to have a built-in radar for these things. My home is a testament to this, with Sharpie marks adorning walls and furniture, and broken picture frames scattered about. I’ve come to terms with the fact that I cannot own nice things. Instead, I embrace the chaos as a sign of a lively household. It’s all part of the experience of raising children, I remind myself.
6. Potty Emergencies Will Strike at the Worst Times
On one memorable road trip, my then toddler decided that the middle of a bustling bridge was the perfect time for a potty emergency. Without any options, I resorted to the emergency water bottle method, which is a precarious undertaking for a young child. Another time, while stuck in traffic after a baseball practice, my son insisted he couldn’t hold it any longer. I had no choice but to suggest he relieve himself in his booster seat. It may not be the ideal solution, but sometimes, parents have to think outside the box. This experience has taught me that while parents rush to potty train, diapers are underrated; they can save you from messy situations.
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