Today, I choose to embrace my life. Even amidst the chaos of getting ready for work and ushering my kids out the door—packing lunches, signing permission slips, and wiping away smudged faces. Just when I think I have everything under control, I’ll see the bus drive away with my son aboard… and I’ll be left holding his soccer bag. I’ll strive to find humor in this situation.
Even when a flat tire and a frozen water pipe occur during the same week my partner is away on business. I’ll brave the car manual and ignite the blow torch. As I jump on the tire bolts or endure the frigid air in the shed trying to thaw the water pipe, I’ll remind myself that right now, I’m a total rockstar.
When the dishes multiply like rabbits and I feel like shaking my fist at the inventor of Play-Doh—who surely never had to clean a floor—I’ll dig in and tackle the mess again. Today, I will savor the satisfaction that comes with restoring order.
Even when my son returns home disheartened because no one played with him at recess, or my daughter accuses me of being unfair for denying her juice, or my partner and I bicker over dinner. I will remind myself that these small bumps in the road are part of our shared humanity, making us beautifully imperfect and… authentic.
Even when worries about my parents’ health and the challenges facing my children fill my mind, I will take a moment to breathe and recognize that most aspects of life are, in fact, good.
As I engage in the inevitable comparisons that women often make, and that nagging voice within me suggests, “You should really do some core exercises,” I’ll tell that voice to hush, reminding myself to watch my child play soccer instead.
Even when the noise becomes overwhelming and I find myself on the brink of yelling, “Enough! I can’t think with all this noise! Just stop being kids!” I will pause and choose to see the amusement in their antics. I’ll appreciate how their wildness is a vital part of their learning experience. Amidst the chaos, I’ll simply turn around and prepare dinner.
Even in my exhaustion when monsters emerge in the night, I’ll soothe my child, tucking her in and concocting whimsical images of tiny monsters wearing tutus. I’ll join in the “monster dance” at three a.m., letting loose and having fun.
Even when I’m uncertain and feel like I’m fumbling through this parenting journey, I’ll remember that I’m not alone; this isn’t a competition to see who has it all together.
At the end of a particularly taxing day, when I’m beyond caring about right or wrong, I might just opt for popcorn and ice cream for dinner. We’ll snuggle on the couch, watch a movie, and let the night stretch a little longer.
Because today, I’m choosing to embrace my life.
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In summary, this article reflects on the importance of embracing life’s imperfections and challenges while finding joy in the everyday moments of parenting.