During my own journey of trying to conceive (TTC, for those unfamiliar with fertility forums), I became hyper-aware of my fertility signals, menstrual cycle, and especially any early hints of pregnancy. I often found myself envious of those relaxed individuals who would say, “We’re not actively trying, but we’re not avoiding it either!” They seemed so carefree, while I was on high alert.
Now that I’m no longer in that phase, old habits are hard to break. Despite knowing that Aunt Flo will arrive like clockwork every 28 days with her unwanted gifts of mood swings and cravings, I still sometimes convince myself that I could be pregnant.
Interestingly, many early pregnancy signs closely resemble common PMS symptoms. It’s almost comical, especially for those hopeful for positive news! Sore breasts? You could be expecting—or just about to start your period. Back in my days of meticulously tracking my basal body temperature, I often wondered if my breast tenderness was due to an actual pregnancy or my constant poking and prodding to gauge sensitivity. It’s a classic case of the “chicken-or-the-egg” dilemma: am I checking for soreness because it’s already there, or is it becoming tender from all the checking?
Here are a few of the most confusing signs I find myself noticing each month:
- Nausea: It seems I often feel vaguely queasy and slightly hungry. Upon reflection, this happens at random times when pregnancy is physically impossible for me. Maybe it’s time to consider a colon cleanse or a gluten-free diet—or dare I say, cut back on coffee?
- Fatigue: With two young kids who have a knack for waking up at dawn, tiredness is part of my daily life. Next!
- Food/Smell Aversions: I’ve realized that this symptom likely stems from my irrational fear of food going bad. I’ve had food poisoning a few times, but my obsession with expiration dates and questionable dairy products is excessive.
- Food Cravings: I’m convinced my cravings are simply my mind’s way of justifying my late-night cookie binge three times a week.
- Mood Swings: Let’s be honest—I often look for reasons behind my emotional ups and downs. Blaming it on pregnancy is just so convenient. (Crying over a horse wearing a jacket? It must be pregnancy hormones! Nope, just PMS.)
Does anyone else experience this monthly confusion? I doubt I’m the only woman who conjures up pregnancy symptoms even when avoiding conception. Perhaps I’m fated to feel this way until menopause, but even then, I might still attribute my hunger pangs to morning sickness.
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Summary:
The signs of early pregnancy and PMS can often overlap, leading to confusion for those who are trying to conceive or simply hoping for a pregnancy. Symptoms like nausea, fatigue, food aversions, cravings, and mood swings can all arise without a pregnancy being present. Understanding these signs can help in distinguishing between the two and provide clarity during the waiting period.