Dear Jacob,
As you approach your 21st birthday, I find myself reflecting on the changes this milestone brings. What aspects of our parenting still hold weight in your life, and which ones have faded into the background like that Little Tykes car from your childhood? Now that you can legally purchase a bottle of Grey Goose or enjoy a cocktail at a bar, I wonder how my influence has shifted. Does growing up make you more receptive to my advice, or do you feel it’s become less relevant?
Looking back over the past 21 years, it’s hard to accept that your childhood has officially ended. While turning eighteen is a significant legal milestone, as most parents know, many college freshmen are still navigating their way through adolescence. It’s this transition into your twenties that marks the beginning of your journey as a man. I see glimpses of that man when I look at you, recalling the sweet boy who adored Barney the Dinosaur and carried his Gymboree blanket wherever he went.
There’s so much ahead of you, and I can sense your eagerness to embrace it all. But please, don’t rush through it. Experience being 21, then 22, and so forth. Think of life as an open book, or perhaps a fresh football season just starting. There will be many lessons to learn, and it won’t all happen at once. I know you’re impatient—just like I once was. You want tomorrow to come today. So, take a moment to breathe and just be.
I find myself stepping back, giving you the space to grow, to carve out your identity separate from your father and me. I want you to discover your own path, influenced by the voices of your family, friends, and your unique moral compass.
I’m proud to see you making choices that reflect your instincts, trusting yourself more after years of asking for guidance. You mentioned to your father that you’ve realized you don’t need to share every detail of your life with us, and that’s when I knew we had done our job well. Even though you need us less often now, we remain here, ready to offer advice if you ever seek it.
Sometimes, I reminisce about the little boy who gazed at me with those enormous green eyes, as if I were the queen of his world. Yet, I cherish the man you are becoming even more. I am excited to see what the future holds for you, but I will take my time, just as you should.
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In summary, as you step into this new era of your life, remember to embrace each moment fully while also preparing for the future. The journey ahead is yours to shape.