Updated: Jan. 7, 2016
Originally Published: Jan. 27, 2012
Recently, during a yoga session—where many of my moments of clarity unfold—I had a profound realization. Our instructor encouraged us to reflect on the one individual who loves us without conditions and to dedicate our practice to them. Naturally, my thoughts turned to my children, whose love is given so abundantly and unreservedly. Then she prompted us to consider if we reciprocated that same depth of love. Did my children truly feel how much I cherish them? This question lingered in my mind: Do they know?
I frequently ponder the legacy I am crafting for my kids—the impressions and feelings they will carry into adulthood. At the end of the day, what will they remember about me? Am I embodying the values I want to instill in them? Am I treating them with the kindness and respect I desire?
As the sole leader of my household, I can easily become wrapped up in daily tasks—errands, chores, and the mundane routines of life. In this whirlwind, I sometimes forget to embrace the present moment and appreciate the precious time I have with my children. This fleeting period will soon pass, and they will embark on their own journeys. My opportunity to positively influence their lives diminishes with each passing moment.
Certainly, I am responsible for their discipline, accountability, and the consequences of their actions, both good and bad. This weight can be burdensome. However, it is also a remarkable privilege. I have the chance to leave a lasting impact on their lives, a gift that should not be taken lightly.
In a sudden burst of clarity during my practice, I resolved to love my children every day as if it were our last together. Each day, they grow and change, and I will never again have the exact child I see before me in this moment. Tomorrow, they will be different.
Thus, I commit to making the best impression I can in every interaction. This is my path to success as a single mother. I will approach each day with the intention of being remembered fondly.
May I find strength in this journey.
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In summary, my experience during yoga led me to deeply reflect on the love I give to my children and the legacy I create as a mother. Each moment is fleeting, and I strive to make a lasting impression in their hearts.