Just before my second child entered the world in 2023, I came up with a delightful idea that I couldn’t wait to share with my partner: let’s focus on our 4-year-old son and ease his transition into being an older sibling. Rather than solely celebrating the arrival of the new baby, we decided to dedicate that special day to him, calling it “big brother day.” Reflecting on it a year later, I can confidently say it was a brilliant decision that made it much easier for him to accept his new sibling.
As a psychologist, I often think ahead about how different situations might affect emotions. Throughout my pregnancy, I considered how my firstborn would handle the change, especially regarding feelings of jealousy or being overlooked. While we can’t control everything, I focused on what I could influence.
To kick things off, I got a few books about becoming a big brother, which helped him understand his new role. This approach made him feel included and celebrated, rather than feeling sidelined. For anyone interested in similar strategies, check out our post on home insemination for more tips.
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In summary, “big brother day” was a heartwarming way to celebrate my son as he welcomed his new sibling. Focusing on his feelings made a significant difference in how he adjusted, and I highly recommend this approach to other parents.