As a child, I was always eager to know if my parents shared my excitement for upcoming events. Whether we were heading to a birthday party at the ice rink or visiting relatives, my constant question was, “Are you excited?” Each time, their reply was consistent: “Excited? We’re looking forward to it.” This puzzled me; I couldn’t grasp why they didn’t display the same level of enthusiasm I felt. I often thought how unfortunate it must be to grow older and lose that sense of wonder. Yet, I never considered asking them about their feelings regarding their own adult experiences. After all, children tend to focus on their own desires.
Recently, my family took a quick trip to the beach. As I outlined our itinerary—strolling along the boardwalk, enjoying ice cream, playing games, and splashing in the pool—my daughter, Mia, eagerly inquired if I was excited. “Excited?” I paused for a moment. “Not really, but I’m certainly looking forward to it.” And indeed I was. However, I find myself genuinely excited about milestones like the first day of school.
In that moment, I realized I had become just like my parents.
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In summary, as we transition into different stages of life, our perspectives on excitement versus anticipation can change. It’s a reminder that while the thrill of childhood may fade, the joy of looking forward to meaningful events can remain.