As we observe “World Breastfeeding Week” and “National Breastfeeding Month,” it’s a time dedicated to honoring nursing, eliminating stigma surrounding public breastfeeding, and informing everyone about the advantages of breastfeeding. While these initiatives are undoubtedly vital, as a mother who was unable to breastfeed any of my children, this month often brings back a wave of familiar emotions. It’s a reminder of my perceived shortcomings. Even nearly a decade after facing challenges with feeding my first child, and later with my second and third, no other aspect of parenting evokes as much shame or sadness for me, despite numerous other parenting hurdles I’ve encountered since then.
This is precisely why I am truly inspired by the “I Support You” movement. Launched by Clara Morgan from Modern Parenting, Lila Green from Formula Freedom, and Sarah Lane from Parenting Unplugged, this initiative aims to bridge the gap between breastfeeding and formula-feeding mothers, promoting the idea that regardless of how we nourish our children, we all do so with love.
We Stand United
“We stand united and invite you to join us. To you at the local parenting group, you in the lactation consultant’s office, refining your newborn’s latch. You, quietly nursing in a cozy corner of a store. You, openly breastfeeding at your child’s sports event. You, who have shed tears over your feeding choices, and you, who made decisions without hesitation – I support you.
To you in the hospital gown, requesting formula. You, expertly shaking a bottle while cradling your baby with the other arm. You, who have researched the best formulas for your little one. You, navigating pumping and combination feeding. You, who have cried over your feeding journey and you, who chose without fear – I support you.
You, alongside your partner, feeding the baby you hope to adopt. You, overcoming health challenges as you connect with new life. You, prioritizing your mental or physical well-being to feed your baby in a way that safeguards both of you. You, the father gently feeding your infant with your fingers. You, the mother carefully administering formula through a G-Tube. You, pumping in the NICU under the glow of the machines that sustain your baby. You, nurturing a foster child back to health. We acknowledge you. You are included in this dialogue.
We support you.
Absolutely. The need for solidarity among all of us is crucial.
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Conclusion
In conclusion, whether you choose to breastfeed, use formula, or find a combination that works for you, remember that the love and care you provide to your child is what truly matters. Let’s support each other in our unique parenting paths.