As an expectant mother, you envision countless dreams for your unborn child. Naturally, your foremost wish is for a healthy baby; this is a universal hope. Beyond that, you might imagine your child inheriting traits from your family—perhaps your mother’s striking green eyes or your father’s strong jawline. Let’s be honest, there’s a part of you that secretly hopes your child resembles you (or at least your side of the family).
However, unless there’s a significant family history or another compelling reason, the thought of your baby needing glasses likely doesn’t cross your mind. Yet, it can happen. The rational side of you might accept the news with a light-hearted comment, but deep down, you might find yourself thinking, “No! Not my little one!”
It’s not that you lack perspective; you understand that a glasses prescription is a minor issue in the grand scheme of life. You know you’re fortunate in so many ways. However, the idea of your child facing even a small hurdle, one that makes life just a little bit more complex, is unsettling.
You may be the most open-minded person, advocating for equality and acceptance regardless of appearance, yet it’s still hard to see your beautiful child behind thick frames. Here’s a truth that’s tough to admit: I wish my kids didn’t have to wear glasses.
Part of this sentiment comes from the fact that my daughter needs prescription goggles for swimming, and my son has a talent for misplacing his glasses every three days. But honestly, it’s mostly about how those adorable faces are partially hidden behind any type of eyewear.
Then there are the unsolicited comments from strangers. For a mother, the thought of anyone saying something hurtful about your child is unbearable—especially when it touches on something you’re already insecure about.
So, do I love that my children wear glasses? Not particularly. Have I come to terms with it? Yes, I’ve accepted their little eyes that are quite farsighted. All eight of them.
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Summary
Navigating the challenges of parenting includes accepting when your child needs glasses. While the initial reaction may be one of disappointment, acceptance often follows. A mother’s journey is filled with hopes, dreams, and the reality that sometimes children face small hurdles like needing eyewear. Finding support and resources can ease the journey.