There’s an unmistakable way to discern mothers from those without children—one that doesn’t require checking for telltale signs like stretch marks. Imagine stepping into a restaurant alone on a Saturday night. You approach the hostess stand and request a table. When she inquires about the size of your party, simply say, “One.” The hostess’s response will reveal if she’s a mother.
A childless hostess may look at you with pity, wondering if you’ve recently faced a breakup, lost a job, or endured a tragic event. She’ll likely engage in small talk as she leads you to a secluded spot near the restrooms, even advising the waitress to be particularly kind to you. After all, who wouldn’t feel sorry for someone dining alone on a Saturday night?
Conversely, if the hostess is a mother, her reaction will be one of envy. The idea of enjoying a meal without the interruptions of children’s menus, tantrums over dinner choices, or meltdowns is nothing short of blissful. She understands the rare luxury of savoring a peaceful meal—complete with a delicious meal, a refreshing drink, and no cleanup to worry about. She might wonder what momentous occasion has led you to this solitary dinner. Are you celebrating a birthday? Perhaps you’ve just landed a new job or accomplished something remarkable? She’ll probably inform the waitress to be especially attentive because, clearly, you deserve it.
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In summary, dining alone on a Saturday night reflects the contrasting perceptions of mothers and non-mothers. While one may feel sorry for you, the other may envy your freedom to enjoy a moment of peace.