I firmly subscribe to the mantra of not criticizing fellow mothers. For the most part, I see moms around me embracing this philosophy, showing kindness towards each other’s imperfections and our not-so-social-media-perfect lives. We recognize that mothers accomplish some truly remarkable feats, yet we remain human, and parenting isn’t always glamorous. That’s why my friends don’t bat an eye when I confess that the one time I remembered the bake sale at my child’s school, I found myself in a convenience store, weighing whether a pack of gummy bears would pass as acceptable treats.
So why is it that Hollywood seems so out of touch?
While the rest of us are still recovering in the hospital, ice packs in place, celebrity moms are signing contracts for postpartum bikini shoots. Kim Kardashian faces backlash for gaining too much weight during her pregnancy, while Rachel Zoe is critiqued for not gaining enough. We’re inundated with images of Blue Ivy Carter’s impeccably designed nursery and Nori West’s high-end wardrobe. Publications even issue report cards grading celebrity mothers—Angelina Jolie received a ‘D’ for allowing her kids to munch on Cheetos. Tori Spelling confessed that she misled a magazine about shedding her baby weight; she didn’t achieve it through “healthy” dieting and exercise but rather by simply not eating, a decision made at her publicist’s suggestion because they believed women “didn’t want to know” the truth.
Honestly, I would much prefer the unvarnished reality.
When a particular celebrity shared a photo on social media, showcasing a team of assistants tending to her hair, makeup, and nails while she lounged in a robe breastfeeding her child, it infuriated me. I never looked that polished while nursing my kids, nor do I wish I had (although I must admit to nursing while on the toilet—multitasking at its finest!). Why would she post such an image, if not to make other mothers feel inadequate? This is far from the experience of 99.99% of moms. Many of us can relate to the struggle—“Hey, celebrity mom, when I’m at work, I’m away from my child for 12 hours, and I’d be lucky to find a supply closet to pump in. Plus, my budget hasn’t allowed for a manicure in years.”
Motherhood is not glamorous, nor is it easy. Let’s make 2022 the year of authenticity, allowing celebrities to be portrayed in their imperfect realities—the good, the bad, and the downright chaotic. It would be a refreshing change.
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