Hello, my beloved children. I want to take a moment to express something important: I am not apologizing for my choice to work. While many mothers feel regret about balancing their careers and family life, I stand firm in my decision.
When I leave in the morning, I’m not sorry that you don’t shed tears. You’re excited about the adventures awaiting you, and that brings me joy. I cherish the fact that your Nana, Gigi, and Pops play significant roles in your life, and you’re forming bonds with them that many children may never experience.
Because of my job, you spend quality time with your capable father, reinforcing the idea that parenting is a shared responsibility. You’ve also formed meaningful connections with other caregivers, enriching your lives with more love and support. Since we both work, you see us sharing household responsibilities, modeling teamwork and cooperation in our family, even if it’s not always smooth sailing.
I may have less time with you, but I firmly believe that the quality of our time together outweighs the quantity. It’s essential to be not just present but actively engaged when we’re together. Research shows that, because I work, my daughter is more likely to pursue higher education and earn a better income, while my son is likely to be hands-on with his future children. You’re both benefiting in ways that extend beyond the here and now.
You have access to a good school district and a spacious backyard to play in, all thanks to the hard work we put in. Most importantly, I’m not sorry I have passions outside of motherhood. A fulfilled mom is a happier mom, and that’s what I aim to be.
Yet, I do have my worries. I sometimes fear you might envy children whose mothers stay home. I think about how you might feel sad when I miss a soccer game or a band concert. I hope you won’t ever feel that my work takes away from our family time. I know many of my friends are stay-at-home moms, and I worry you might think I am the only one who works, despite the fact that nearly 70 percent of mothers with children under 18 are part of the workforce.
Yes, I have my concerns, but above all, I am grateful. I’m thankful that you see your parents challenging traditional gender roles, which will empower you to create your own paths. I appreciate having family nearby for support, knowing that many parents are not as fortunate. Most importantly, I treasure those big, sloppy kisses and “I love you, Mommy” that you give me at the end of the day. My working does not diminish our love for each other.
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In summary, I embrace my career while remaining committed to you. My work allows us to thrive as a family, and I hope you understand that love is not measured by time but by the richness of our connections.