As a parent, I have a clear mission: I want every teenager to understand that engaging in sexual activity can result in pregnancy, which ranks as one of the top three undesirable outcomes of a romantic encounter—just behind STDs and feelings of regret. To tackle this issue head-on, I’m proud to announce my newly conceived initiative, “Teaching Teens That Babies Are a Bad Idea,” or TTTBABI for short. Conveniently, this acronym has “BA” in the middle—though I’m not promoting anything that might lead to babies, so I’m still brainstorming a better title for my campaign.
Generally, I’m not overly concerned about who has children unless it’s me or if those little ones are left abandoned and living off candy at a young age. And let’s be clear: no baby should be munching on Ring Pops at six months old. They could choke! Instead, they should be enjoying something safer, like Pixy Sticks. This is just one of the many lessons I could share with teenagers.
Once upon a time, I was a teen myself, and I ventured into the world of sex during a phase I’d classify as “naively unaware of the emotional and physical implications, and too eager for affection to make wise choices.” Hormones were rampant, and I was all too familiar with that other “H” word that means “infatuated”—you know, the one that implies a strong desire for intimacy. It’s uncomfortable to admit, but there it is. Just like how we all cringe at terms like “moist” and “panties,” which only adds to that feeling of nausea that can accompany pregnancy. So, take notes, teens.
When I was in high school, the reality of pregnancy seemed far-fetched during my escapades. To illustrate the seriousness of parenthood, our school assigned us the task of caring for a decorated egg—complete with yarn for hair!—or perhaps it was a sack of flour. Regardless, we toted our “babies” around for a week, pretending they were actual children. But let’s face it: flour and eggs don’t cry or require diaper changes. Nice try, public education.
A more effective simulation might involve a 7-pound water toy with a slow leak and a grapefruit attached to a Slinky to resemble a baby’s head. I can just imagine the fun of trying to sleep with a malfunctioning smoke detector in your pillow while your “baby” keeps you up all night. Now that’s a lesson in parenting!
For years, schools have relied on ineffective methods to teach about the responsibilities of parenthood. I suspect my mother’s own experience with a flour baby motivated her to wait almost two decades before having my siblings. Thanks to this foresight, when my sister was only 12, I gifted her a preemie niece—now she might just consider becoming a nun to dodge the prospect of parenthood! Because let’s be honest, nothing is as intimidating as a real baby.
To help my siblings steer clear of early parenthood, I invited them over every summer while I raised my own children (I currently have four—dedication to TTTBABI!). My kids have been quite effective in demonstrating the challenges of parenting: diaper disasters, sleepless nights, and tantrums galore have kept my siblings from venturing down that path.
If you don’t have access to little ones, fear not! You can still join my initiative. Malls are fantastic venues for engaging teens. Approach a group and ask them to help change your overgrown toddler’s diaper, explaining that flushing toilets cause anxiety for him. That should do the trick!
If you have teens but no babies, consider joining a mommy-and-me class. Ask the mothers if they’d like to leave their infants with your sulking teenager during a round of “Skinamarinky Dinky Dink.” That’s a surefire way to promote celibacy!
Alternative Ideas
For those barred from the mall or music classes, here are some alternatives:
- Have your teen play games with mischievous monkeys that throw “poo.”
- Make them carry a puppy for hours, ensuring it can’t be put down until it has an accident on them.
- Put a tiny bit of real feces in a bowl of cereal, and when they eat it, explain that every parent inevitably encounters “baby mess.”
- Wake them every hour at night to undress and redress a cat, all while feeding it a bottle.
Be creative! Reflect on your own parenting experiences and devise ways to create a nightmare for your teen to endure. It’s never too late to help them realize that while babies can be a blessing, they’re best welcomed after algebra and history classes, not during.
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