Dear All,
Are you feeling pressured by family or friends to have an audience during your childbirth? It’s time to take a stand and assert your preferences, especially if in-laws are making assumptions about their presence.
When did we collectively decide that having extra people in the delivery room was a good idea? Already, the medical staff’s presence can be daunting enough without adding an audience to the mix. After all, we’ve already sacrificed a bit of our dignity by trotting around with a urine sample at the doctor’s office. Clearly, pregnancy doesn’t mean we should forfeit our boundaries.
By the time your due date arrives, you might be accustomed to a certain lack of privacy, but that still doesn’t mean you want your mother-in-law witnessing your labor. The only person who should have any say in who is present during the birth is the partner who contributed to this journey—though even that may be up for debate.
If you think of labor and delivery as a production, you’re the one in charge. You are the director, the producer, and the one holding the clipboard at the door. You decide who gets a front-row seat—no need to justify your choices. “Exposed vagina” should suffice as a reason to keep unwanted guests at bay. A simple sign on your hospital door reading “Keep Out: Exposed Vagina” could do the trick (I believe Comic Sans makes it more approachable; no one can label you as rude when it’s in that font!).
In reality, stress can significantly prolong labor. Just like animals in nature, who halt labor when feeling threatened, women also experience this phenomenon. If you feel uneasy or uncomfortable around certain individuals, it’s vital to keep them away during such a personal and vulnerable time.
If friends and family provide comfort and support, go ahead and invite them in. But if you have any doubts about someone’s presence, don’t hesitate to firmly establish your boundaries. You have every right to prioritize your comfort—because, remember, exposed vagina.
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In summary, childbirth is a deeply personal experience, and it’s crucial to assert your needs regarding who is present. Protect your space, prioritize your comfort, and make the experience as stress-free as possible.