In her book The Ultimate Guide for Young Women (Workman, new edition 2015), author Jessica Lane sought advice from countless women on what they wished they knew upon graduating from college. Their insights could have significantly alleviated challenges and made their 20s and 30s more manageable. Here’s a highlight from one of these women.
Name: Sarah Thompson
Age: 29
Occupation: Lead Producer at a digital marketing firm
Key Lessons Learned:
- Prioritize Balance. Achieving success at work doesn’t necessitate sacrificing your personal life. In fact, having diverse experiences outside of the office can enhance your contributions at work. Exploring different interests enriches your perspective, which you can then share with your colleagues.
- Embrace Uncertainty. You are not required to have a definitive career path mapped out. Be open to taking risks that allow you to explore your passions, whether that means switching jobs, traveling, or diving into a personal project that excites you. Your journey may lead you to unexpected places, and that’s a wonderful aspect of growth.
- Self-Care is Important. While it’s vital to be supportive of others, it’s equally important to set aside time for yourself. Whether that means pursuing a hobby, enjoying solitude, or occasionally declining invitations, having a strong sense of self will make you a better friend and co-worker. This is a lesson I continue to learn daily.
- Don’t Hesitate to Seek Help. Although it’s essential to be independent and attempt to solve problems on your own, reaching out for assistance is not a weakness. It’s a sign of self-awareness and strength.
- You are the CEO of Your Career. While others may offer support or mentorship, the ultimate responsibility for your career lies with you. Trust in yourself and your decisions, even as you consider the advice and insights from those around you.
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Summary:
In your 20s, remember that you are the architect of your career. Prioritize balance in both your work and personal life, embrace the journey of self-discovery, and don’t shy away from seeking help when necessary. Above all, trust in your own abilities as you navigate your path.