Starting preschool or day care can be a big change for your little one, and it may take some time for them to adjust—especially when it comes to sharing their experiences with you. Here are some tips to make the transition smoother for both of you.
Understanding the Pick-Up
When you pick up your child, don’t expect a joyous reunion. Often, the same toddler who clung to you in the morning might seem indifferent or even cranky when you arrive. This isn’t a reflection of your bond; toddlers struggle to switch gears between activities and environments. Keep your demeanor cheerful and brisk, similar to how you were at drop-off. You might even want to echo the teacher’s encouraging phrases, like “Let’s wave goodbye!” before scooping them up.
Giving Space
Avoid overwhelming your child with affection right away. Your instinct might be to shower them with hugs and kisses, assuming they missed you intensely. However, children, much like adults, often need a moment to decompress after a busy day. Give your toddler a little space to settle down.
Creating a Calm Environment
Once you’re back home after pick-up, consider offering a snack. Being at daycare or school can be exhausting, and a little nourishment can help your child recharge. It’s a great way to create a calm environment to encourage them to open up about their day.
Encouraging Conversation
If your toddler struggles to articulate their experiences, try asking open-ended questions, such as “What was your favorite part of the day?” or “Did you make any new friends?” This invites them to share without feeling pressured.
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In summary, adjusting to day care or preschool can be challenging for toddlers, but with a little patience and understanding, you can help facilitate their transition. Create a welcoming environment at home and encourage them to share their experiences in a relaxed manner.