After an unexpected C-section with my first child, I was hesitant about trying for a vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC). My name is Sarah, and I have twin boys who were born in September 2019. The experience was quite intense; I managed to deliver one of my twins, but after a long pushing phase, I was rushed into surgery when my baby’s heart rate began to drop. Thankfully, both boys were healthy, but the ordeal left me feeling shaken.
My husband, Jake, and I always dreamed of expanding our family. Our twins were conceived through IVF, and I was optimistic that we could successfully use one of our remaining embryos. However, after two years filled with five unsuccessful transfers and two heartbreaking miscarriages, I knew I needed a change. I switched to a new fertility clinic to get a fresh perspective.
For the next six months, my new doctor recommended a break, suggesting I take a “hormone holiday.” This gave me the space to process my emotions and heal without feeling the pressure to continually pursue IVF. By January 2024, I finally felt ready to explore my options for another pregnancy.
It was during this time that I began to reconsider the possibility of a VBAC. With my doctor’s support and encouragement, I started to research and learn about the benefits and risks involved. This blog post from our site on home insemination and fertility may provide additional insights on navigating pregnancy decisions.
If you want to hear more about transitioning from breastfeeding to formula, check out this insightful piece by comedian Emma Taylor, who shares her own experiences.
For those interested in IVF and fertility preservation, the Cleveland Clinic offers a fantastic podcast that can equip you with valuable information on these topics.
Summary
In my journey toward expanding my family, I faced many challenges, including a traumatic birth and struggles with IVF. However, after switching providers and taking a much-needed break, I began to reconsider a VBAC for my next pregnancy. With the right support and resources, I realized that sometimes, it’s necessary to challenge our initial beliefs.