When life gets tough, the simplest gestures can mean the world. A small act of kindness can elevate any dish, especially when it saves a friend time and energy.
Recently, during a challenging time with my son’s illness, a friend offered to bring me something — perhaps a cake? I eagerly accepted. She showed up with a massive slab of mud cake adorned with creamy chocolate ganache. I couldn’t resist and took slice after slice, sharing it with my husband and kids. Later, she mentioned the cake was overcooked and the ganache was an attempt to mask that fact. It made the gesture even more special — she had given us an IMPERFECT cake!
I embrace the beauty of imperfection in cooking and in life. If my friend hadn’t lowered the bar, I would have missed out on that delicious cake, proving that perfection often gets in the way of goodness.
This principle guides my cooking and friendships. I adore cooking and love sharing meals with friends, especially during their tough moments. However, as a mom of three young kids with two jobs and various commitments, I often find myself short on time. My perspective shifted when I received meal support from friends after each of my children was born. I realized that even when I lacked time, these meals were a lifesaver, and we appreciated every dish, regardless of its appearance.
I often remind myself that the act of cooking for someone is about the gesture, not my culinary reputation. Even if my stir-fry is a bit overdone or my quiche could use more cheese, I have learned to let go of perfection and focus on the gift of nourishment.
I’ve noticed that food often tastes better when it comes from someone else. Just the other day, a friend fondly recalled a “delicious” green chicken curry I made, only for me to admit it was made from a packet. Another time, I shared a frozen hunk of bolognese and some pasta with a family in need. The mother later shared that it moved her to tears, not due to the quality of the meal but because of the kindness it represented.
In challenging times filled with stress and uncertainty, remember that a simple meal, even if it’s not perfect, can be a gift. Cooking is about care and thoughtfulness, and so is giving.
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Summary
When trying to support a friend during tough times, remember that the thought behind the gesture is what truly counts. An imperfect meal can mean so much more than one that’s perfectly crafted. By embracing the idea of “just-good-enough” food, you can provide comfort and connection, proving that love is the most important ingredient.
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