I often felt the pressure to upgrade to a bigger house in the suburbs, but I wish more parents understood that it’s perfectly fine to stay in your current home.
Living in a small space can present its own set of challenges, especially when you have little ones. It’s a common misconception that you must move to accommodate your growing family.
In a segment of our “What I Wish I Knew” series, parents share valuable insights from their experiences. As a new mom to a one-month-old who only found comfort when being held or rocked, I found myself in a moment of desperation and ordered a baby swing. I thought it might give me a few precious minutes to eat or get dressed. However, when the swing arrived, I quickly realized it was far too large for my cozy urban living room—a space smaller than many suburban bathrooms. In fact, it dominated the entire area, and to my dismay, my baby didn’t enjoy it at all.
My partner and I had always envisioned purchasing a quaint rowhome in the city after he completed grad school, knowing we wanted to start a family. We believed a small house would suit us just fine. However, that initial experience with the swing made me question whether we should consider moving to a larger home in the suburbs. I had heard countless times, either directly or indirectly, that we would require more space after starting a family.
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In conclusion, while it’s easy to feel pressured to move, many families find joy and functionality in their smaller homes. Embrace your space, and remember that love and care matter far more than square footage.