As we near two years of the pandemic, I find myself teetering on the edge of losing my composure… once again. Recently, my son called me out for asking him about a school project, only to repeat the same inquiry moments later. His tone pushed me to the brink.
This morning, I went for a run but forgot my earbuds, phone, and wallet—an oversight that baffled me, considering I usually grab a Diet Coke post-run to kickstart my day. How could I leave without essentials that were right in front of me?
After my partner, Jake, left some belongings at my place following a holiday stay, he casually mentioned, “I thought you could bring them next time you come over.” That was the last straw; I snapped back, emphasizing that I had enough on my plate and he needed to take responsibility for his items.
Like many parents, my already overloaded brain is in constant overdrive. The to-do list seems endless, and if I don’t keep the momentum going, things slip through the cracks—sometimes literally. And guess who ends up picking up the pieces? Me.
From a young age, I understood that I had to rely on myself. As a woman, I’m acutely aware that we are often the caregivers, worrying about ourselves, our families, and everything in between. But once you step into motherhood, it’s like chugging a dozen energy drinks; your mind never takes a break. Whether you’re feeling under the weather, dealing with hormonal fluctuations, or simply trying to catch some sleep, a mom’s mind is always racing. It’s no wonder so many of us feel on the verge of breaking down.
As we enter a new year, the notion of fresh beginnings feels hollow for many mothers. It’s the same exhausting routine, particularly during COVID and amidst the chaos of fluctuating school situations.
Research shows that moms have borne the brunt of the pandemic, constantly worrying about safety, managing work-from-home dynamics, and caring for the kids. Somehow, my children and partner seem shocked when I finally lose my temper. We patiently ask for help multiple times, only to be met with indifference until we raise our voices in frustration. It’s as though our polite requests to take out the trash or clear the table go unheard.
Most moms I know are just one misplaced shoe or one sleepless night away from a meltdown—especially now. We’ve asked for assistance, made it clear we are struggling, yet it often feels like no one is listening.
So here I am, reaching my breaking point once again. Consider this a heads-up.
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The challenges of parenting during the pandemic can leave many mothers feeling overwhelmed and on the verge of losing control. Between managing family needs, work responsibilities, and the emotional strain of the ongoing crisis, it’s easy to feel like no one is listening. This article highlights the daily struggles moms face and the urgent need for acknowledgment and support.
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