When my kids were younger, we limited their access to electronics. There were no TVs in their rooms, and they didn’t get cell phones until they reached 12 or 13 years old. Little did I know what awaited us once they started using laptops in seventh grade along with their new cell phones.
Suddenly, our well-behaved kids transformed into sneaky, untruthful teens who were glued to their devices. My ex-husband and I initially took their phones away around eight o’clock, sending them to bed, but our plans quickly unraveled. One night, we caught our daughter chatting on FaceTime at midnight, revealing that her siblings were doing the same. This realization struck me hard; they had become irritable, unmotivated, and uninterested in playing outside.
My daughter pointed out that we were the only parents enforcing this rule. According to them, all their friends had unrestricted access to their phones and computers. After some back-and-forth, I eventually conceded, thinking that constant access would make the devices less appealing and help them return to a normal sleep schedule. Instead, things only deteriorated.
It was then that I made a firm decision to collect their devices every night, including three laptops, two iPads, and three cell phones, keeping them close at hand. Though the positive effects weren’t immediate, over time and with considerable resistance, I began to notice significant improvements:
1. Better Sleep
A 2015 study involving nearly 10,000 teenagers aged 16-19 found that using cell phones at night increased the likelihood of taking an hour to fall asleep by up to 50%. The American Academy of Pediatrics highlighted that sleeping with a phone nearby is more detrimental than dozing off with the TV on. My daughter now recognizes this; she often had trouble falling asleep when her phone was close by and would wake up multiple times to check it.
2. Improved Concentration
AARP notes that smartphones are a major distraction, impacting attention spans. My kids seemed increasingly impatient, making it difficult to motivate them for homework or outings. According to William Klemm, a neuroscience expert, this habit of rapidly switching tasks conflicts with sustained focus.
3. Engagement in Other Activities
Initially, it took time for my kids to discover alternatives to using their devices at night. With no choice but to engage in other activities, they started reading or drawing instead of just staring at the ceiling.
4. Increased Happiness
While sleep undoubtedly plays a role in their mood, my children have admitted that reduced phone time contributes to a greater sense of happiness, even if they find it tough to step away on their own.
If this means raising healthier, happier kids, I will gladly embrace my role as “the only mom who takes away cell phones at night.”
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In summary, taking away my teens’ cell phones at night led to better sleep, improved concentration, increased engagement in other activities, and an overall boost in their happiness. It may not be a popular decision among their peers, but the positive changes are undeniable.