From The Confessional: I Certainly Have a Favorite Child

Parenting Confessions

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Sometimes, it’s tough to deny that one child captures your heart a bit more than the others. Whether it’s a daily shift in favoritism or a longstanding bond with one particular kiddo, the truth is that many parents have a favorite—whether they admit it or not.

Even the most well-intentioned parents, like those of us who grew up feeling overshadowed (like me), often find ourselves in the confessional, revealing our soft spots. So, do you have a favorite child?

“I definitely have a favorite. My son is the kindest person and a delight to raise.”

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“I’ve been pregnant four times—only one was planned, and he’s my absolute favorite.”

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“My favorite child? She has four paws!”

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Sometimes, our favorites are furry companions.

“I know we’re supposed to love all kids equally, but I just vibe better with my youngest right now while my oldest is in a mood.”

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“My family jokes that my hamster is my favorite because she’s quiet and stays put. Honestly, I might love her the most—it’s not just a joke. I feel like a bad mom.”

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And yes, the furry favorites come in all shapes and sizes.

“My partner has a favorite child, and the others can totally tell. It’s tough for them.”

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“I don’t have a favorite, but I do have one I like the least—my oldest. Counting down the years until she turns 18!”

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“I love all my kids equally, but let’s be real: the favorite and least favorite can change based on who’s being the least annoying at the moment.”

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See? It’s all about rotating favorites! Each child deserves their moment in the spotlight (when they’re not misbehaving).

“I have a favorite child, and anyone claiming otherwise is just not telling the truth.”

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“I absolutely have a favorite child. I cherish both of my kids, but only one truly resonates with me.”

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“My daughter is always outside from morning till night (I have to pull her in from the rain). She’s my favorite.”

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“I feel guilty for having a favorite. I love all my children, but I enjoy spending time with one more than the others. It’s not a lack of effort; it just clicks better with one.”

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In these cases, perhaps it’s less about favoritism and more about shared interests and hobbies. As long as your other kids feel loved and valued, that’s perfectly fine!

“I shouldn’t have a favorite, but I can’t help it! One son is pleasant and helpful, while the others are loud and demanding. How can I not favor him?”

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“I don’t have a favorite child… but I do have a least favorite. My 10-year-old son struggles with everything and drives me crazy! I love him, but it’s tough to like him sometimes. Mom fail.”

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“I find that my favorite is always the youngest. Now that I’m done having babies, I wonder if I’ll end up resenting them all as they grow up.”

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“Having my first child was my biggest regret. I wish I had given them up for adoption. Now that I have two kids, it’s clear who my favorite is.”

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Ouch.

“I was really upset when I got pregnant again while on the pill. I was focused on losing weight and didn’t want to be pregnant. But now, I think he’s my favorite, which makes me feel guilty every day.”

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And finally, one confession we can all relate to:

“My favorite child is whichever one is asleep.”

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In summary, many parents find themselves with a favorite child, whether they admit it or not. This isn’t about loving one child more than the others; it’s often about shared interests and personalities that click better. Balancing love and attention among siblings is key, and recognizing these dynamics can help ensure all children feel valued.