Thanksgiving is my absolute favorite holiday. As a parent, sharing this time with my children makes it even more meaningful. However, I can’t ignore the complex history that accompanies this celebration. This year, I want to have an honest conversation with my kids about the true essence of Thanksgiving—it’s not just about the turkey or pumpkin pie. It’s essential to discuss this in a way that they can grasp. Here’s how to approach the topic of Thanksgiving with your children.
Experts like Aria Thompson from the Native American community emphasize the importance of sharing the full narrative with kids. Children are perceptive and can comprehend more than we often give them credit for. Historical scholar, Jenna White, notes that the stories of Native American tribes, particularly the Wampanoag, have often been overlooked, and understanding their perspective is crucial.
It’s vital to convey to kids the initial hesitation the Wampanoag felt toward the Pilgrims. They didn’t just welcome the newcomers with open arms; they observed them for months, recalling past experiences where similar-looking people had taken their resources. You can relate this to your children’s experiences of meeting new people—especially those who are different from them—emphasizing the natural apprehension that comes with unfamiliarity.
For my young daughters, I will focus on the idea that holidays, including Thanksgiving, are about family unity. Before we gather around the dinner table, I plan to share snippets of the Thanksgiving story. As Ibram X. Kendi wisely points out, bringing people together starts with honest conversations within our families. Thanksgiving is a time for family, sharing meals, and embracing diversity at the table.
To kick off our discussions, we’ll read Thanksgiving-themed books, as my kids enjoy reading. Identifying the best moments to talk is key—whether it’s during car rides or after bath time. Here are some recommended books that present Thanksgiving from a Native American perspective:
- Thanksgiving: A Native American Good Morning Message by Chief Jake Swamp (Ages 5-11)
- 1621: A New Look at Thanksgiving by Catherine O’Neill Grace (Ages 8-12)
- The Very First Americans by Cara Ashrose (Ages 4-8)
- Squanto’s Journey: The Story of the First Thanksgiving by Joseph Bruchac (Ages 4-7)
- Four Seasons of Corn: A Winnebago Tradition (Ages 6-8)
- The First Thanksgiving by Linda Hayward (Ages 6-8)
When reflecting on Thanksgiving, it’s important to recognize that it’s not merely about enjoying turkey and pie; it’s also a moment to reflect on our nation’s journey. I’ll remind my daughters that the Wampanoag people are still here and thriving, as Bettina Washington, a member of the Wampanoag tribe, highlighted during an NPR interview.
While some may view Thanksgiving through a critical lens, for many, it remains a cherished occasion filled with family, food, and togetherness. This year, I hope we can all recognize the progress we’ve made as a society while acknowledging the work that still lies ahead. Consider swapping out a football game for a fun trivia game or engaging family members in lighthearted conversation to foster connection.
For additional insights, check out the Smithsonian’s Native Knowledge 360º Education Initiative, or learn about the Plymouth 400 project created for the Mayflower’s 400th anniversary. You might also find out which Native American tribe’s land you currently inhabit by using this helpful tool.
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In summary, when discussing Thanksgiving with your kids, it’s crucial to provide a well-rounded perspective that emphasizes family, diversity, and the true history of the holiday. Make it a moment for connection, understanding, and reflection.