These mothers have bid farewell to Christianity for good.
Religion has contributed more challenges in the world than it has resolved, particularly Christianity (cough colonization cough). While being part of a church community can provide a sense of belonging, it becomes problematic when that community excludes marginalized groups and primarily serves to uphold patriarchal values. As a result, many have chosen to say “no thanks.” Ex-Christians are stepping forward to share their stories.
Perhaps you distanced yourself from Christianity after realizing that the Bible shouldn’t be the foundation for American laws and principles. Maybe it was because women can’t take on leadership roles in your church. Or perhaps it was witnessing the hypocrisy of individuals who condemn the LGBTQ community while engaging in their own questionable behaviors. Whatever your reason, you are far from alone. Sit back and enjoy these mothers sharing their experiences of leaving Christianity behind.
“My partner is struggling more with moving on from fundamentalism than I am, which often leads to conflict. I identify as a liberal progressive Christian, and he tries to make me feel bad about it. If he leaves, I’m confident I’ll be alright financially, but it still scares me.”
Confessional #25853746
“Trying to hold back tears. My husband has become increasingly hateful about politics, and I can’t endure it anymore. I regret falling for conservative Christianity and politics in my youth. I wish I could leave, but I’m stuck financially. I’m saddened by my choices today.”
Confessional #25848964
“My aunt worked for a reproductive health organization and shared that conservative Christians often seek secret abortions—because of course, they do!”
Confessional #25848398
“I know I’m no longer a Christian, but I can’t share this with anyone in my life. I’m just relieved we don’t attend church anymore. For now, I’ll pretend to be a nominal Christian because reality feels so much better.”
Confessional #25848334
“This pandemic has highlighted the hypocrisy of conservative Christians. They claim to be pro-life, yet act as if they’re part of a death cult.”
Confessional #25847759
The pandemic, coinciding with the Trump era, has illuminated the contradictions in the Christian Right.
“Hey fellow Christians, we can’t proclaim the sanctity of life while refusing masks or vaccines that protect the vulnerable. Anything else is a deception, and we all know it.”
Confessional #25846126
“I no longer identify with right-wing Christianity and am leaning toward agnosticism. I can’t tell my husband, who believes everyone should be Christian. At least we don’t attend church, so we avoid the topic for now.”
Confessional #25844064
“I feel detached from Christianity but still appreciate the positive teachings of Christ. We don’t go to church, and I cherish that freedom. I wish I could share this with my husband, who believes everyone should follow God. Sometimes I long for complete freedom.”
Confessional #25843919
It’s heart-wrenching to see wives hiding their ex-Christian beliefs from their husbands.
“Since leaving organized religion and the American church behind, I feel liberated to read the Bible and embrace the true teachings of Christ. I’ve grown more compassionate and loving toward others, which is sad considering how toxic evangelicalism has been.”
Confessional #25825040
“Admitting that I’m no longer an evangelical Christian is daunting. I still hold onto a kinder, gentler concept of God, thanks to the inspiration of Fred Rogers. But I can’t share this around me, as everyone is highly conservative.”
Confessional #25810297
“I’ve come to realize that evangelical Christianity never made sense. I’m guiding my kids away from it; my husband is already more distanced than he admits. We’re teaching our children to think critically, even though their religious grandparents disapprove.”
Confessional #25799194
“As of today, I’m no longer a Christian. Enough with the evangelical church.”
Confessional #25793957
Many fail to recognize that spirituality and belief in a version of God can exist outside of Christianity.
“I’m working on overcoming my judgmental tendencies, a habit ingrained from growing up in an extreme evangelical environment. Now that I’m free, I find myself happier and more open to people and the world.”
Confessional #25343034
“I’ve left religion but still believe in a God of love and kindness. I realized how mentally exhausting evangelical Christianity is. I can’t reveal my beliefs to my parents since they’re firm believers in hellfire, but I’m happy they live far away.”
Confessional #25295401
“I believe in Jesus—privately! I maintain a personal relationship with my savior. Today’s evangelicals seem to be the ‘hypocrites’ who pray for attention. The leaders of those mega-churches are the money changers Jesus would have cast out of the temple.”
Confessional #21889031
Ultimately, whatever your reasons for leaving, kudos to you for taking that step. It’s not an easy journey, often requiring lifelong deconstruction, and you may face judgment for your decision. But isn’t that part of the reason you left in the first place?
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Summary:
This article reflects the experiences of mothers who have distanced themselves from Christianity, primarily due to its perceived hypocrisy and exclusionary practices. Many share their struggles, revealing a journey toward personal freedom and a more compassionate worldview, while grappling with the challenges of hiding their beliefs from loved ones.