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I’m a stay-at-home mom to a three-year-old son and a one-year-old daughter. As any SAHM can tell you, my day is packed from morning until night. Admittedly, there are days when the house looks like a disaster zone, with dishes piling up and toys scattered everywhere. But managing two young kids is a full-time job in itself! My husband, however, doesn’t seem to understand this. When he comes home to chaos, he asks, almost with resentment, if I’ve done anything productive that day. It infuriates me! How can I make him realize that my role is demanding work?
Oh, this situation is certainly frustrating! While a petty response might be to simply stop tidying up (not to the point of neglecting the kids’ needs, of course), it’s not the most mature approach. The key issue here is how he’s framing his questions. Is he genuinely curious about your day, or is he trying to undermine your contributions as a mother and wife?
It’s important to communicate how his comments make you feel. This isn’t about anger, but rather about expressing that you feel undervalued. Depending on his reaction, he might apologize and become more understanding, or he might double down on his criticism. If it’s the latter, it could be time to assess other aspects of your relationship where he may feel superior. Couples therapy might be beneficial if he’s open to change. If not, you might need to reevaluate the dynamics of your partnership, as his attitude could eventually affect your kids too.
Remember, you don’t have to justify your role or provide a play-by-play of your daily tasks. Raising children is incredibly significant and challenging work, and that alone is more than enough!
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Summary:
The letter addresses a stay-at-home mom’s frustration with her husband’s lack of appreciation for her role. She seeks advice on how to communicate her feelings about feeling undervalued. The response emphasizes the importance of expressing feelings clearly, understanding the husband’s perspective, and considering couples therapy if necessary. It also reassures her that her work as a parent is significant enough without needing to justify it.