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If there’s one thing we can attribute to the Trump era (and let’s be real, this is the one positive), it’s the unveiling of the deep-seated issues of racism in America that many believed were fading away. We thought we had progressed, right? Equal rights for all! That the blatant racism and intolerance were relics of the past, or at least fading along with our cranky, old neighbors. But sadly, that’s not the case. The reality is that racism remains a significant issue today, and the fight for equality for BIPOC individuals in the U.S. is far from finished.
What makes it even more painful is when those closest to us—family, spouses, and friends—express hateful views. This harsh truth came to light for many during the rise of toxic political rhetoric, revealing that those we love may hold prejudiced beliefs. The dilemma then arises: should we sever ties with these individuals or attempt to maintain a relationship despite their differing values?
For example, my brother-in-law became involved in an online hate group targeting those with my political beliefs, yet I’m still expected to interact with him as if nothing is wrong. Would anyone expect a Jewish person to be cordial with a Nazi? A BIPOC individual to be friendly with an avowed racist? Then why should I?
Confessions from Others
- One person shared their frustration about their husband’s mother, who openly expresses racist views without any accountability from her children.
- Another confided that they appreciated the lockdowns because it meant avoiding their in-laws and their toxic, ignorant influence.
It’s often easy to suggest cutting toxic individuals out of your life, such as saying, “If your mother-in-law is racist, just cut her off!” But it’s rarely that simple. If you’re looking for a solid reason to distance yourself from toxic family members, consider saying, “I refuse to expose my children to your bigotry. Goodbye.”
When it comes to our own parents, it can be heart-wrenching to confront the reality that they hold racist views. How can the people who raised us harbor such beliefs? How do we navigate relationships with family members who openly express prejudice?
In some cases, partners reveal their true colors during these challenging times, leading to serious considerations about the future of the relationship. For instance, one woman expressed feeling ready to leave her husband due to his blatant racism, but she felt trapped by financial dependency.
As we reflect on our relationships, whether familial or friendships, we must decide whether we can engage in meaningful dialogue about their harmful beliefs or if it’s time to part ways. It’s a difficult journey, and if you find yourself grappling with similar issues, remember you’re not alone.
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In summary, the reality of encountering racism in our personal lives can be profoundly disheartening. Whether it involves family, friends, or partners, facing these harsh truths requires careful consideration of how to protect our values while maintaining our relationships.