Can you do self-insemination at home ?
In this advice column, we address the everyday challenges of parenting, from relationships to body image and everything in between. This week, we tackle a light-hearted concern: how old is too old when it comes to helping your child with personal hygiene?
A parent recently shared a situation that sparked a friendly debate among her mom friends. While some were lamenting the messy aftermath of their kids’ attempts at wiping, she confessed that she still assists her almost five-year-old with this task. Given that her daughter is not in preschool due to pandemic-related closures, she continued the practice, which left her wondering if she was the odd one out. It seems that many of her friends’ children have been independently wiping since they were first potty trained, which she found surprising. So, is she the sole “wiping mom”?
First off, let me say, this is quite possibly the most charming dilemma I’ve encountered! And no, you are not weird for continuing to help your child. As you mentioned, there hasn’t been a reason to stop. Children develop at different rates, and it’s quite common for a child to need assistance with hygiene well past toddlerhood. In fact, many kids struggle with proper wiping at a much older age.
If you’re ready to transition, consider teaching your daughter how to wipe her own bottom. She might be hesitant initially, but with some guidance, she can learn the ropes. Show her how much toilet paper to use (about 5-6 squares, depending on the brand), and demonstrate the technique. If she’s starting school soon, it’ll be essential for her to master this skill.
Don’t let the title of “Butt-Wiping Mom” feel like a label to hide from; embrace it! Your daughter appreciates the clean approach, and it may encourage her to maintain good hygiene practices as she grows.
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In summary, it’s perfectly normal to assist your child with wiping, especially if there are no external pressures to stop. Each child develops at their own pace, and you’re doing a great job by ensuring your daughter is clean and comfortable.