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Recently, rapper Chris Michaels has faced backlash from parents upset over the music video for his song “Paradise (Call Me By Your Name).” In the controversial video, Michaels, wearing only boxers, slides down a stripper pole into a surreal depiction of Hell, where he engages in a provocative dance with a character representing Satan. While many parents recognize Michaels from his catchy hit “Country Road,” which became a Kidz Bop favorite among younger children, it’s crucial to remember that his music is not created specifically for kids. He produces art that resonates with him, and if children enjoy it, it’s the responsibility of parents to discuss the themes and messages presented. Parents are the ones who set the guidelines for their children, not musicians.
People often forget that musicians are simply doing their jobs, which includes expressing themselves. This can sometimes blur the lines between their professional and personal identities. While some artists intentionally blur those lines, it’s ultimately their choice. They should feel free to express themselves without the burden of catering to the moral expectations of parents.
Unless the artists are specifically targeting children, like The Wiggles or Laurie Berkner, most popular music isn’t designed for young audiences. Just because a song is covered by Kidz Bop doesn’t mean it’s meant for kids. For example, while “Country Road” might resonate with a younger audience, its appeal is not limited to them. When songs gain popularity among kids, parents often elevate these artists to the status of “role models,” despite them never seeking that label.
A few weeks back, artists Mia and Tara performed a censored version of their song “Body” at a major awards show. Many parents were outraged that such a performance was even allowed. However, it was a significant moment in pop culture. The performance, while undeniably sensual, showcased their talent through impressive choreography. My nine-year-old son watched with me, appreciating the skill involved. It was refreshing to see him recognize their talent, rather than focusing solely on the provocative aspects.
Many parents who express outrage over performances like “Body” seem to forget the music we enjoyed at their age. I was likely around my son’s age when I sang along to hits like “Let’s Talk About Sex” or “I Wanna Sex You Up.” There’s a clear inconsistency when parents today attempt to shield their kids from similar content. I prefer to have open dialogues with my son about what he hears, rather than simply shielding him.
Interestingly, discussions about morality in music often intensify when the artists are women, particularly women of color, or members of the LGBTQIA+ community. There’s a notable double standard in how society scrutinizes these artists. Why do people feel uncomfortable when women of color assert their sexuality or when an openly gay artist reclaims their narrative? Musicians should not be confined to the narrow roles society imposes on them. If you don’t want your children to see something you find inappropriate, the onus is on you to change the channel or switch off the music.
Celebrities, whether they’re musicians or actors, are simply performing their jobs. How the public interacts with their art is a personal choice. Artists have no obligation to adhere to societal moral standards. Just like you, they’re entitled to express themselves freely. If you find a particular artist’s work unsuitable for your child, it’s up to you to manage your child’s media exposure, not to dictate how artists should conduct themselves.
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Summary
Musicians aren’t obligated to be role models for children; they create art based on their own experiences and perspectives. Parents must take responsibility for guiding their children’s engagement with music and media, rather than imposing their moral standards on artists. Open dialogues about the content are essential, especially when discussing works by women or LGBTQIA+ artists, who often face societal scrutiny. Ultimately, it’s up to parents to filter their children’s media intake while respecting artists’ freedom of expression.