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This week’s dilemma: What should you do when your parents are fully vaccinated, yet you still feel uneasy about having them visit your home? If you have a question of your own, reach out to us via our website.
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
My parents are both over 60 and have received their vaccinations — yay! We’ve been very strict about keeping them out of our home during the pandemic, sticking to outdoor meet-ups only. This has been challenging during the winter months, so I’m relieved they’re now vaccinated. However, I still feel nervous about inviting them over, despite what the CDC and the latest science say. My kids aren’t vaccinated yet, and my parents regularly take care of my siblings’ children, who are in school and daycare. My little ones, however, are not enrolled anywhere. After a year of strict safety measures, I’m just not fully confident in letting my parents come inside.
It’s been a whirlwind year filled with new information and updates. Every time the CDC releases new guidelines, it feels like we’re all trying to keep up. While it’s generally considered safe for fully vaccinated grandparents to see unvaccinated grandchildren—provided the kids aren’t at high risk for COVID—there’s still some uncertainty about whether vaccinated individuals can transmit the virus. The CDC has seemed to waver on this topic recently.
That said, it’s important to give ourselves grace as we navigate these fears and anxieties. The pandemic is still affecting many lives, and it’s okay to feel apprehensive. Have an open conversation with your parents about your feelings. Together, you can come up with different options for visits that won’t trigger your anxiety. As the weather improves, you might consider sticking to outdoor gatherings or asking them to wear masks when inside your home. It will take time for all of us to feel fully confident in our choices regarding risk management, so prioritize what makes you comfortable and maintain your safety boundaries.
What we do know is that vaccines are effective in preventing infection and transmission, but nothing is foolproof. Experts will continue to learn more about the vaccines and the virus in the coming months.
In summary, work with your family to find a solution that works for everyone while keeping safety at the forefront. Equip yourself with accurate information (check out cdc.gov for reliable updates) before making any big decisions, and consider the pros and cons if that helps ease your anxiety.
Above all, show yourself some compassion. You’re handling a tough situation remarkably well.
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