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Many believe that Easter must revolve around Jesus for it to hold significance. I recall a friend sharing how her child likened Christ’s resurrection to a “force-ghost” moment, asking, “So Jesus is like Obi-Wan Kenobi?” While the parents were shocked, I found the analogy quite clever. Our family celebrates Easter without focusing on Jesus, and when I recounted this story to my partner, he cheekily suggested I ask our youngest about Jesus. I hesitated, joking that it might cause a stir among the godparents.
It’s true that if I asked my younger kids about Jesus, they’d likely look puzzled, possibly connecting him to Christmas or Bibles. A few years ago, we stepped away from organized religion and haven’t replaced it with much else. While I’ve dabbled in mindfulness and a touch of Dharmism, it’s not dogmatic. The kids have heard some Old Testament tales in a broader context, but when it comes to major holidays, we celebrate Christmas and Easter without a focus on Jesus.
The Essence of Easter
Historically, Christianity has absorbed elements from various cultures, as noted by St. Augustine referring to it as “Egyptian gold.” The Venerable Bede mentioned Eostre, the Saxon mother goddess, which contributed to the blending of resurrection themes with spring celebrations. Thus, our Easter festivities emphasize the arrival of spring. Living in the Southern U.S., this is particularly delightful as the trees begin to bloom and flowers burst into color. We take a moment to appreciate the season’s arrival, perhaps indulging in a chocolate bunny as a treat.
Traditions Without Jesus
While we may celebrate Easter without Jesus, the traditions remain vibrant. Our family dresses up for the occasion, with me in a white dress and a large hat, and the kids dressed to impress, albeit with some grumbling. Egg hunts in the front yard are a highlight, and our colorful baskets overflow with seasonal treats—no church blessings necessary.
Food also plays a significant role in our celebration. While I don’t partake in ham as a vegetarian, there’s no reason why it can’t be part of our Easter meal. From ham to macaroni and cheese, culinary delights are still enjoyed without the religious undertones.
Togetherness and Renewal
Most importantly, Easter symbolizes the end of winter and the beginning of renewed life. This year feels exceptionally poignant as we reflect on our journey through the pandemic. With spring arriving, we are grateful for our resilience. At our Easter table, our gratitude will extend to Dolly Parton for her contributions to the world, serving as an inspiring figure for us all.
This Easter, we will not view it as a hollow celebration devoid of meaning. Instead, we will embrace it as a time of hope and renewal, akin to a “spring of hope after a winter of despair.” Together, we will acknowledge our sacrifices and the world’s resurgence, commemorating this season of light.
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Summary
Easter can be a meaningful celebration even without a focus on Jesus. By embracing springtime traditions, indulging in festive foods, and cherishing time spent together, families can create a joyful atmosphere that reflects renewal and hope. This year, as we gather, we’ll remember our shared sacrifices and the brighter days ahead.