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Are you noticing the trend on social media lately? Easter baskets are reaching new heights—literally! Influencers are showcasing extravagant baskets brimming with expensive gifts like high-end sneakers, jewelry, gift cards, gaming consoles, and gourmet sweets. While these baskets are undoubtedly well-crafted, it begs the question: when did Easter start competing with Christmas?
Growing up in the 80s, my Easter basket consisted of a book, some plastic eggs filled with jelly beans, and a chocolate bunny. The entire experience cost my parents maybe $10, and we were always overjoyed with our haul. Fast forward to today, and it seems Easter has transformed into a holiday that rivals the excitement of Christmas morning.
We dress up for church, snap family photos, enjoy an Easter dinner, and participate in egg hunts, sometimes alongside someone dressed as a rather unsettling Easter bunny. Then there’s the traditional egg dyeing, which fills the house with the smell of vinegar and eggs.
Let me clarify: you don’t need to buy your child a gaming system or any high-end gifts. Your little one doesn’t require designer accessories or gift cards, nor must you provide them with the fanciest chocolates.
This year, I also noticed an influx of Valentine’s and St. Patrick’s Day baskets online, overflowing with themed goodies. My kids? They each receive a book and a chocolate treat for Valentine’s Day, and for St. Patrick’s Day, a homemade soda bread—does that count as a celebration?
I cherish holidays and go all out for Christmas, complete with cookies, music, and a four-gift rule. However, I refuse to create a perfectly curated gift display just for social media validation. It’s baffling how these elaborate photos garner likes; they hardly represent the norm for families and often feel more like showboating than genuine sharing.
I want my children to appreciate holidays for the experiences they offer, rather than focusing solely on material gifts. It’s essential to acknowledge that not everyone can afford to create extravagant holiday displays, and having the means to do so is a privilege.
Wouldn’t it be nice to return to a simpler 1980s Easter celebration? Imagine a cozy dinner, wearing pastel outfits, and enjoying an egg hunt filled with coins, stickers, and candy. Kids could trade their goodies, just like after trick-or-treating!
Easter shouldn’t have to compete with Christmas. Let’s release that guilt. Even if you have the financial means to create an elaborate basket, why perpetuate the idea that holiday joy depends on the weight of the basket? Instead, consider using that money for a good cause, assembling baskets for those in need, or hosting a socially-distanced meal for others.
I’m grateful for this spring holiday, especially as we continue navigating the challenges of the pandemic. However, my kids will not be overwhelmed with extravagant baskets. Just like my parents did, I’ll get them a book, a small toy, and a little something sweet. We’re looking forward to an egg hunt, which may even include some of our favorite candies!
The truth is, money can’t buy happiness. If your kids’ Easter baskets look similar to mine, give yourself a pat on the back—you’re doing great! There’s no need to think you’re failing your children if they don’t receive an extravagant haul from the Easter Bunny. You can make this holiday special without overspending.
In these times, many of us have faced financial changes due to the pandemic, prompting us to prioritize and find joy in simpler activities rather than material possessions. I know that sounds cliché, but it holds true.
If your feed is cluttered with ostentatious Easter basket images, consider unfollowing those accounts. You don’t need that kind of privileged negativity in your life. Treat your kids to a few thoughtful items and let them revel in the joy of the Easter Bunny’s visit. And don’t forget to indulge yourself with something delightful—savor the spirit of Easter instead of comparing yourself to others.
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Summary
Easter celebrations have shifted dramatically from simple traditions to extravagant displays, often fueled by social media. Many parents feel pressured to compete in creating elaborate Easter baskets, leading to a focus on material gifts rather than meaningful experiences. It’s essential to remember that holidays can be celebrated without overspending, and the true joy lies in the moments shared with family. Simplicity, creativity, and gratitude should define our holiday experiences, especially in challenging times.