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This week’s query: At what age should we stop wiping our kids’ bottoms? Do you have a question of your own?
I need some perspective on this issue that doesn’t seem to be an issue at all. Recently, while chatting with a group of fellow moms, a couple complained about their children’s wiping skills—or lack thereof—and the laundry that results from it. I kept quiet because I felt outnumbered, but the truth is, I still wipe my kiddo’s bottom, and she’s nearly five. I don’t think that’s odd, right? With the pandemic, she hasn’t been in preschool or daycare, so I just continued helping her out. My friends’ kids, apparently, have been handling it on their own since being potty-trained, which seems wild to me. Am I the only one still doing this?
You’re Not Alone
First off, let me just say that this is the most charming “problem” I’ve encountered! As for whether you’re strange for still wiping, the answer is no. You’re simply doing what feels right. Kids develop at different paces, and honestly, I haven’t met many toddlers who can effectively clean themselves at just two years old. The fact that your friends are dealing with laundry disasters suggests their kids might not be quite as clean as they think.
If you’re comfortable, it might be time to start guiding your daughter on how to wipe herself correctly. If she’s anything like my child, she might be a bit squeamish about it, but with some guidance—like how many squares to use and the proper technique—she’ll get the hang of it. If she’s starting school soon, it’s a good skill for her to learn.
Embrace Your Role
Don’t let the title of “Butt-Wiping Mom” get you down. Embrace it! You’re saving yourself from the mess of stains, and your daughter is learning good hygiene habits that will benefit her in the long run.
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In summary, you’re not weird for still wiping your child’s bottom. It’s a common practice for many parents, especially when circumstances change. With time and a little guidance, your daughter will be able to take on this responsibility herself.