One thing I never truly anticipated about motherhood was the relentless absence of quiet time. Despite my experience as a high school teacher, where I dealt with plenty of noise and chaos, nothing could have prepared me for the constant din brought on by three children in just five years. While my teaching job had its closing hours, allowing me to retreat to a tranquil apartment, motherhood flipped that script entirely. Suddenly, I found myself with little personal space, with my evenings filled with the joyful chaos of tiny humans needing my attention.
Then the pandemic struck. What had once been a daydream of having a peaceful home, where I could enjoy uninterrupted solitude, quickly became a reality where I was confined 24/7 with not just the kids, but my spouse as well. The kids were doing schoolwork at the kitchen table while the adults attempted to work from the couch, and I was juggling a million responsibilities at once.
Now, more than ever, I crave genuine alone time and tranquility. Not just a fleeting fifteen minutes of silence while the kids are in another room, but a full day—or even a week—of absolute solitude and stillness. I don’t need a vacation; I just need everyone to go away for a bit.
Why can’t I focus?! Oh right, because my wonderful kids (whom I adore) are incessantly humming, talking, yelling, crying, and fighting. Please, for the love of all that is good, just be quiet!
Confessions of a Tired Mom
Confession #25816050
I know it’s been said countless times, but I feel terrible when I don’t engage with my child all day (aside from the essentials like feeding and the occasional hug). I just want to stare at a wall and have her be silent for hours.
Confession #25804097
I love my children, but the nonstop chatter, questions, and screams are driving me mad. They never stop talking!
Confession #25798794
I need my kids to just be quiet for a while. Go read a book or color or nap; I don’t care, just be silent!
Confession #25810897
Dear sweet cherub children, we love you dearly. But for heaven’s sake, please just be quiet before our heads explode.
Confession #25822880
I dream of escaping to a quiet bed and breakfast alone, ordering room service, sleeping when I want, and soaking in the tub without anyone needing meals or clothes.
Confession #25811985
Sometimes, I let my daughter play in the bath for an hour just to grab a moment of peace.
Confession #25825281
I’m exhausted from being a mom to boys during this pandemic. Every day brings a new injury, and I’m exhausted by all this chaos. Can we just read a book quietly?!
Confession #25816299
I’m so over the constant noise—kids shrieking, dogs barking, my spouse chewing with his mouth open while talking on the phone. I miss my quiet home. Thanks a lot, COVID.
Confession #25809960
My husband has been working from home since before the pandemic, and now I fear he’ll never return to the office. After eight years of being a stay-at-home mom, I earned my quiet time, and now it’s gone!
Confession #25822342
Is it terrible that I find joy when my husband goes into the office? I want him to be happy working from home, but I desperately need my space and peace.
Confession #25812301
If my husband asks me “are you okay?” one more time, I swear I’ll lose it. I’m fine! I’m just quiet. I don’t need to fill every silence with chatter. Please, just go back to work!
Confession #25817485
I told my husband I needed some quiet time, but as soon as he goes to bed, my daughter comes down and won’t stop talking! I need peace!
Confession #25813713
Every night, I promise to sleep by 11 PM, but once everyone else is asleep, I finally have my precious peace and quiet. No one needs anything from me, except for myself.
Confession #25816924
I’m not a morning person, yet I wake up at 5 AM just to enjoy my coffee in solitude and browse the internet without judgment. I’m so over my kids and husband being around constantly.
Confession #25819639
I long for Mondays when my husband and kids are out of the house, allowing me to watch my shows and enjoy quiet time alone, without anyone treating me like a maid.
Confession #25816983
I fantasize about living alone where nothing moves except me. A place that’s quiet and pleasant smelling instead of gym socks and wet dogs. I wish I could embrace my inner minimalist without distractions.
Confession #25822347
I love silence and solitude. Remind me again, why did I decide to have kids?
You know you’re a mom who has put in the work as a stay-at-home parent during a pandemic when your biggest fantasy is being locked in a room by yourself. We love our families and have appreciated the time spent together, but once life returns to normal, we might just need everyone to take a little trip without us. Or maybe I’ll escape to a cabin in the woods where no one can find me, just to indulge in some much-needed solitude. It’s essential for us to find a way to regain our peace and a bit of personal space to recharge, so we can face the beautiful chaos of family life once again.
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In summary, many parents, especially moms, are craving moments of peace and quiet amidst the chaos of family life, especially during challenging times like a pandemic. It’s essential for their well-being to find ways to recharge and enjoy solitude, even if it’s just for a short period.