After experiencing two miscarriages, Sarah* was taken aback when she discovered she was pregnant again. Alongside her past losses, she dealt with chronic hypertension and was classified as overweight, placing her pregnancy in the high-risk category. Unfortunately, Sarah felt her care team prioritized her weight over her emotional wellbeing. “I felt like I was just a number to them, not a person,” she shared. “Despite my efforts to maintain a healthy pregnancy, I was treated poorly, which only heightened my anxiety and despair.” Although her doctors mentioned her mental health during appointments, Sarah sensed they were merely reciting from a script without truly engaging with her fears. “Every little symptom made me panic, and I found myself haunted by thoughts of SIDS. Even now, 2.5 years postpartum, I’m still anxious about it.”
Similarly, Anna had her own challenges when she learned she was expecting twins, one of which was diagnosed with Intrauterine Growth Restriction. As a first-time mother, she felt overwhelmed and unsupported. “I was left to navigate this alone, even though my doctors were aware of my depression,” Anna recounted. “I felt invisible and stressed, which was the last thing I needed in a high-risk situation.”
This highlights a troubling paradox: women facing high-risk pregnancies often endure significant emotional turmoil but frequently lack adequate mental health support. In a conversation with healthcare professionals and those who have experienced high-risk pregnancies, we explored available emotional resources and how loved ones can provide assistance.
Defining a High-Risk Pregnancy
Several factors can classify a pregnancy as high-risk. According to the Mayo Clinic, these include advanced maternal age (typically over 35), substance use, carrying multiples, pre-existing health issues (like diabetes or hypertension), and complications in current or past pregnancies. As pregnancy rates for women aged 35 and older continue to rise, high-risk pregnancies are increasingly common and should not be regarded as an anomaly.
Examples of High-Risk Pregnancies
- Premature labor: Contractions occurring before the 37th week, often resulting in preterm birth.
- Placenta previa: A condition where the placenta covers the cervix, posing risks such as heavy bleeding.
- Preeclampsia: Characterized by elevated blood pressure and protein in urine, which can harm a mother’s health.
Don’t Rely Solely on Your OB-GYN for Mental Health Support
While it would be ideal for OB-GYNs to monitor their patients’ mental health, this is not always the reality. “There’s a disconnect between mental and physical health care,” explains Dr. Linda Rockwell, a psychotherapist. “Doctors often overlook the emotional strain that accompanies high-risk pregnancies.” While some practitioners do offer great mental health support, the time constraints they face can limit their ability to engage deeply with patients.
Finding Emotional Support During a High-Risk Pregnancy
Experiencing a high-risk pregnancy can make individuals more susceptible to anxiety and depression. As clinical psychologist Dr. Emily Harrison notes, “Anxiety arises from perceived threats, and for pregnant women, the health of themselves and their baby often triggers these feelings.” If you’re navigating a high-risk pregnancy, it’s essential to build a support network and seek help. Consider therapy to process your emotions and join support groups, either in-person or online.
Dr. LaTasha Perkins, a family physician, understands the importance of seeking help. “Even as a medical professional, I faced a high-risk pregnancy. It’s vital to remember that mental health is as crucial as physical health during this time,” she advises. Open communication with your doctor, partner, and friends about your experiences can foster understanding and support.
How Loved Ones Can Provide Support
If someone close to you is going through a high-risk pregnancy, you may feel uncertain about how to assist them. “Simply asking how they feel or offering help can go a long way,” says Dr. Rockwell. Listening without judgment and avoiding unsolicited advice can create a safe space for them to express their feelings. Instead of offering solutions, consider practical assistance, like preparing meals or helping with errands.
Let them know you recognize their struggles and that you’re there for them. Acknowledging their situation without attempting to fix it can be incredibly comforting.
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In summary, women facing high-risk pregnancies need emotional support to navigate the fears and challenges they encounter. Building a robust support system and encouraging open communication can significantly alleviate anxiety and despair. Loved ones can play a crucial role by providing reassurance and practical help while respecting the pregnant individual’s emotional journey.